Are your conflicts and interactions are often really negative, fueled with resentment?
Relationships, intimacy, better sex and building the relationship you desire are possible through marriage counseling in Palm Bay, Florida. A lot of times, distant couples come in because they want to stay together, but they’re dealing with anger. Arguments, yelling, criticism and defensiveness, name calling, put downs, and power struggles are hurtful. Do you find one person always has to have the last word? Instead, Wisdom Within Counseling supports healthy connection and passionate love.
To begin, book your free phone consult below for holistic marriage counseling in Palm, Bay Florida.
In the beginning of your relationship, things were probably really fun.
It felt super good and you felt super in love. Romance was hot and heavy, things were going well. But, now let’s say 20 years later, you’re in a totally different space. You feel hurt about some things. Sad about others in your marriage. Other memories make you feel mad and frustrated. When you think about your relationship, you want to stay together, but you want skills to make it easier.
Marriage counseling with Katie Ziskind for emotional communication and a better sex life
Let’s say there are desire differences and one person has a high sex drive, one person has a low sex drive. The person with a high sex drive may feel sexually rejected when the person with a low sex drive pushes their hand away. The person with a high sex drive tends to initiate sexual advances more so, but feel rejected regularly. This person feels sad, hurt, and insecure about their needs being valid. Their partner has different needs. They feel unimportant and unwanted sexually. They narrate that they are not good looking or don’t have an attractive appearance. Negative self-talk develops. Commonly, couples in this situation benefit from holistic marriage counseling in Palm Bay, Florida. Katie Ziskind and her team of therapists specialize with couples with differences in sexual desire.
What do unhealthy couples do and how can marriage counseling in Palm Bay, Florida help?
There is a sense of seriousness and anxiety and fear that impacts a lot of interactions. Unhealthy couples fight, argue, or give the silent treatment. And, when couples are lacking healthy communication skills, they tend to fight more about sex. Fighting more about differences in sexual desire is common. Rejection, anger, loss, and hurt all go together. And, unhealthy couples find it hard to talk calmly due to a lack of healthy communication tools. In addition to communication, there are a lot of reasons couples come in for counseling. Counseling supports slowing down, listening, and emotional expression.
Can marriage counseling in Palm Bay Florida help me and my partner through stress?
Yes, if you’re having issues like loss and stress, couples therapy can support you both. For instance, loss of a parent, loss of a child, or loss of a really important beloved friend can be devastating. Loss and trauma can really create challenges for you intimately. Finding out someone important to you died can cause depression and effect your life as a whole. After loss, it is normal to feel depression. You may have SSRI medications. However, medications can have side effects that lower libido and low sexual desire dysfunctions. Medication can also just be a huge shift for your body. As a holistic practice, we work with couples who may be wanting to come off medication. Some couples want positive coping tools and are and choosing a more holistic route.
LGBTQIA+ therapy
Also, issues like gender identity, coming out really impact your relationship and are great reasons to have a safe space to talk. Working in marriage counseling in Palm Bay, Florida is unlike any other relationship in your life. You can’t talk with your friends your family or your coworkers about your sex life, your intimacy or even the trust issues you’re facing with your partner. Coming out as transgender can be very emotional, but also empowering. So, at Wisdom Within Counseling, we can be that safe space for you. Whether it’s really discussing your gender identity, your sexual orientation with your partner.
To begin, book your free phone consult below for holistic marriage counseling in Palm, Bay Florida.
Affair and infidelity recovery
Or. if your partner’s been cheating on you, holistic marriage counseling in Palm Bay, Florida can help. Learning about commitment and trust are key after they had an affair. Essentially, from a break in trust and secret keeping, there is loss, hurt and betrayal. Maybe, your partner was keeping secrets around money too. Perhaps, they were spending money behind your back and financial trust is needing to be repaired and rebuilt. Wisdom Within Counseling encourages emotionally intimate conversations the support shared values around trust. Couples who are struggling after an affair may feel anger, anxiety, sadness, betrayal, surprise, shock, heartbreak, loss and trauma. Feeling and expressing these emotions is associated with healing after an affair and repairing after infidelity.
Get to the source of the pain in holistic marriage counseling in Palm Bay, Florida
Couples counseling can be a great place to do that work, and couples therapy is all about slowing down, figuring out why things are really happening, to dealing with the root cause of issues. Because so often, we’re so quick to just try to promise someone our behavior will change, but never really are we dealing with that root cause. In holistic marriage counseling in Palm Bay, Florida, we can deal with the root cause. For some, it can be childhood trauma experiences. Other people are have people-pleasing parts, need help with self-soothing, loss, social anxiety, even issues like fear of intimacy.
What is trauma and PTSD and what role does it play in you intimate relationship and sex life?
Figuring out an affair or infidelity creates betrayal bring awareness to trauma. Loss and betrayal are forms of trauma and can cause PTSD symptoms. Now, that betrayal and loss can re trigger childhood losses. Betrayal gets re-traumatized in future painful experiences. Triggers can feel confusing. Therefore, couples counseling in Melbourne, Florida helps pinpoint where this trigger comes from. You may feel a kind of anxiety or panic with PTSD.
Marriage counseling helps your partner understand your needs and traumas.
Then, couples can work together to develop a true sense of emotional security in counseling first. Emotional security and emotional intimacy are precursors to having an amazing sex life. Building a sense of emotional security leads to passion and playfulness that can spice up your romantic, intimate relationship.
This can be a great experience for couples to build meaningful connection, and essentially, a whole new version of their love life.
You get to start from the ground up. You get different techniques and tools. Wisdom Within Counseling helps couples develop emotional connection and confidence. You can overcome self-esteem issues, and body image issues on a personal level, and as a couple too. Couples counseling helps you to feel excitement together again. Being vulnerable together is a beautiful skill from holistic marriage counseling in Palm Bay, Florida.
Better your relationship
Holistic marriage counseling in Palm Bay, Florida helps you have an even better connection than you did prior to starting counseling.
This new start and an incredible space to just start talking about what hasn’t been talked about for years!
In holistic marriage counseling in Palm Bay, Florida, you can start to have honest conversations. You can learn to be authentic with each other in ways you may have never done in the past. That can be so incredibly liberating, and even lead to a stronger, more meaningful connection than you had prior.
To begin, book your free phone consult below for holistic marriage counseling in Palm, Bay Florida.
Get support through though times in holistic couples therapy
So, as difficult as what you’re going through is, holistic marriage counseling in Palm Bay, Florida can help you. Start by building healthy communication skills. Katie Ziskind and her team would love to help you repair your relationship. Whether it’s from better intimacy and sex, to emotional validation, and healing from past hurts, you get a safe place. Counseling is a place to heal from past bad experiences and grow together spiritually as a unit.
Holistic marriage counseling in Palm Bay, Florida gives you the skills to build passionate, intimate, healing, and magical long lasting love.
Katie Ziskind is the owner of Wisdom Within Counseling. We have a physical location in Southeastern Connecticut and virtual locations in Florida along the Space Coast. As well, we incorporate art, yoga, creative painting, mindfulness meditation, and music into couples counseling. Healing trauma is easier with holistic options and alternatives to talking. All these different holistic, somatic therapies and mind-body therapies, to help you overcome trauma memories, and PTSD. Holistic therapies are part of building a more intuitive, calm, peaceful lifestyle. Yoga, art, music, and walking by the beach help couples live in the present moment after trauma and loss.
You can pick from art, yoga, music, even outdoor nature sessions and the fresh air in holistic marriage counseling in Palm Bay, Florida.
Wisdom Within Counseling offers therapy to couples in Titusville. Titusville, Cape Canaveral, Port Canaveral, Cocoa Beach, Viera, Melbourne, Melbourne Beach, and Palm Bay, Florida. As well, our team of marriage and family therapists support couples in Rockledge, Port Saint John, South Patrick Shores, Satellite Beach, and Indian Harbour Beach, Florida. We have locations in Southeastern Connecticut and Florida.
And, all to promote a more holistic centered grounded lifestyle. As alternatives to sitting traditionally, we offer holistic mind-body therapies.
These alternatives to traditional talk counseling help couples build meaningful connection and playfulness.
Overall, couples can gain positive coping tools from holistic counseling to feel on the same page and loved.
In marriage counseling, you can build enjoyment together, improving your sex life, gaining healthy communication tools, and really building the romantic relationship that serves you.
Wisdom Within Counseling is a nurturing group of marital and family therapists. At the same time, our therapists help you gain communication skills. We also encourage you to express your sexual needs, talk about sexual pleasure, and sexuality. In addition to helping couples, we help anxious children, depressed teenagers and distant couples holistically and creatively. Video and in person session available for your whole family.
