If you are struggling with intimacy in your marriage, you are in the right place to speciality help. Do you wonder why there is no sexual desire or sexual passion in your romantic relationship anymore? Where did the passion, sexy times, and orgasms go? Has it been a long period of time since you have had sex with your spouse or romantic partner? Do you feel like roommates or business partners with your spouse? Wishing you understood the mystery of the female pleasure system more to support multiple orgasms? Do you want more frequent, more pleasurable sex? Lack of sexual desire can come from many different places and have a variety of different root causes. Wisdom Within Counseling is a group of sex and intimacy specialists in couples therapy and would love to help you create a powerful, passionate, orgasmic sex life. Keep reading to learn more about marriage therapy for a better sex life.
To begin, book a phone consult using the button below to meet with a sex and intimacy specialists in couples therapy.
Does it feel like emotional connection and intimacy is not there in your marriage anymore?
Many couples are happy, great parents together, and respect each other. However, the passion, playfulness, mystery, and sexual desire has vanished. You may have a decade plus of good times, but the sexual passion is all gone. You lost it along your way, and you want to spice things back up.
If you are looking for sex and intimacy counseling, our team specializes in helping couples rebuild an emotional bond and passionate, erotic, sexual connection.
Did you know that emotional connection is part of sexual foreplay?
First, we need to talk about the building blocks to a passionate, safe, and healthy sex life. In order to have an amazing, satisfying, and passionate, sexual experience, emotional connection is essential. The first building block is emotional intimacy and emotional safety.
Emotional connection is one of the building blocks to having passionate, pleasurable sex. If you aren’t into your partner, or feel resentful, it will be hard to become sexually aroused. As well, conflicts, fighting, and anger that lingers prevent passionate, intimate, erotic sex.
Fighting right after sex can lead to issues in future sexual experiences. If you fight after sex, the team at Wisdom Within Counseling can help you and your spouse.
Talking with an intimacy therapist who specializes in sex, couples, and long-term marriages can support you in talking about emotions under sex. You and your partner may need help gaining healthy communication skills.
To begin, click below for a phone consult to meet with a marriage, sex, and intimacy specialist in couples therapy at Wisdom Within Counseling.
If you fight and yell, it can be difficult to build intimacy on a physical and sexual level.
Learning conflict resolution skills can be a positive part of couples counseling for a better sex life. Resentment, anger, conflict, and betrayal can stand in the way of a happy, healthy sex life. Learning to calmly talk about intense emotions is part of building a safe, positive sex life. Couples therapy can address communication issues that may be contributing to low sexual desire or sexual rejection.
When we look at becoming closer, sex and intimacy specialists in couples therapy at Wisdom Within Counseling look at emotional intimacy.
Emotional security and emotional intimacy also means knowing your partner well. Of course, if they don’t like yelling, gaining healthy communication skills can help. Learning to diffuse fights and share emotions calmly is always helpful. As well, emotional intimacy is about reading body language.
You want to learn to notice when you partner is emotionally distressed and offer comfort.
Emotional intimacy skills mean noticing when your partner’s eyes look sad or distant. Also, emotional intimacy means stepping in and going to your partner when they seem like they are pulling away.
Emotional intimacy is all about noticing when your relationship needs more than just a Band-Aid. A long-term love life and satisfying sex life is not about a quick fix. Rather, putting in emotional attention will allows for the most pleasurable sexual and physical intimacy.
The first moment your partner starts sleeping on the couch, this is a sign that your relationship needs repair. Don’t let behaviors that demonstrate distance go on for too long. Many couples wait until issues have snowballed to get professional sex and intimacy help.
At the first sign of emotional distance, seek professional couples therapy.
Furthermore, part of having a healthy sexual relationship is improving skills for emotional intimacy. Working with sex and intimacy specialists in couples therapy at Wisdom Within Counseling can help you gain these important skills.
To begin, book a phone consult using the button below to meet with a sex and intimacy specialists in couples therapy.
What are common struggles that prevent couples from having an amazing sex life?
You might feel really comfortable around your romantic partner, or your spouse, but you don’t see them as a sexually expressive being.
It might seem like work has gotten in the way. Many other responsibilities can get in the way of scheduling a happy sex life.
Over time, long-term couples may find beautiful joy in next steps, but these can take away time from sex.
For instance, buying property together, having children, advancing in jobs, taking care of bills and a household can lead to a focus on other activities. It can feel good to excelling a career, but that can leave your erotic and sex life lacking.
Child care, parenting, or caring for loved ones with health issues could all create problems for healthy sex life.
Too much of a focus on work can take away from a passionate sex life
If you are working twelve hour shifts, it might be really difficult to be sexual or sexually expressive after work. You might not have any energy left to give back to your relationship in a sexual manner.
Lack of good nutrition can lead to sexual issues
If you drink too much caffeine and live off of sugar or candy bars, it will be hard for your body to develop sexual desire. Living off poor quality food
Meditations can lead to sexual problems
You may have a low libido issue due to different medication’s. Allergy medications can lead to vaginal dryness. As a result, painful sex can occur from vaginal dryness.
Certain medication‘s can lead to a lack of sexual desire, which can lead to intimacy issues in your marriage. Anti-depressants have a side effect of depressing sex drive and lower sex drive. Even thought these may be helpful for depression and anxiety, they impact sex life, desire, and sex drive.
SSRI’s and anti-depressants can lead to low sexual desire and sex issues.
It might feel like there is a crack forming in your marriage right now, because of the lack of sexual desire.
By increasing emotional intimacy, physical intimacy will naturally increase. Emotions are deeply connected with sexual pleasure. The team at Wisdom Within Counseling help couples in long-term marriages rebuild their sex life. The team of sex and intimacy specialists offer couples therapy and marriage counseling.
Through the process of couples counseling with an intimacy specialist, you cannot only admire each other and parent, but build a sense of sexual play together. Regaining a sense of erotic desire can power up your marriage, improve bonding, and connection.
To begin, book a phone consult using the button below to meet with a sex and intimacy specialists in couples therapy.
How can working with the team of sex and intimacy specialists in couples therapy at Wisdom Within Counseling support more passion?
Let’s talk about foreplay.
Foreplay is an important part of having a healthy and satisfying, sex life.
Emotional connection is also involved when getting sexually playful. There has to be a sense of trust and confidence in your relationship in order to build up foreplay.
A males body only takes about 3 to 8 minutes to reach orgasm. And for some men, they take even less time. This means that a male’s penis can go from flaccid to orgasm mean in about 3-7 minutes.
To note, the female orgasmic system and pleasure system takes longer. Through the process of a couples and intimacy therapy, couples can learn about the female pleasure system.
Why do we talk about it in intimacy and marriage counseling?
Foreplay so important.
The female pleasure and orgasmic system takes about 45 to 90 minutes to experience orgasm. Think of baking banana bread. You don’t want to take it out of the oven when it isn’t fully cooked. Just like banana bread takes an hour to cook, the female pleasure system takes about an hour too. Each minute of foreplay leads to more and more erotic feelings of sexual desire. Your sex coach and intimacy therapist at Wisdom Within Counseling can offer fun, adventurous ideas for what to do for foreplay. Building desire is all about foreplay in a happy sex life. For many women, foreplay is the best part of a sexual relationship.
To begin, book a phone consult using the button below to meet with a sex and intimacy specialists in couples therapy.
When a female orgasms, it is an incredibly amazing sensation throughout her entire body.
Females can also have a variety of different types of orgasms. Your therapist can help you explore how to offer a female partner multiple orgasms.
Multiple orgasms can be so fun to play around with in your marriage and romantic relationship.
More so, multiple orgasms come from a place of emotional intimacy. First and foremost, foreplay is what allows a female to experience such a passionate, sensual, and powerful orgasm.
At Wisdom Within Counseling, marriage therapy can be a safe place to share about sexual foreplay, teasing, and what isn’t working about foreplay.
Furthermore, each person in a couple unit gets to have a voice about what you need sexually. One or both people may want to partake in kink or BDSM. Talking about kinks and BDSM in marriage counseling sessions can bring deeper connection and intimacy.
Building the emotional connection and emotional intimacy are important skills for a healthy marriage and parts of working with our sex and intimacy specialists in couples therapy.
In a way, working with a sex and intimacy specialists in couples therapy can also help create a shield against negative outlets, like infidelity or emotional cheating. Some people are unfaithful due to sex issues. Building a passionate sex life can build bonding, security, and emotional closeness. These are essential components of a strong marriage foundation.
So, sex coaching and marriage counseling can help to prevent those. Building up the sexual desire and hype foreplay can be mental and physical. Talking about what you like sexually with your partner can be a huge benefit of working with a couples, sex and intimacy therapist.
Your sex coach and marriage therapist can encourage your mind to be present in your body. As well, your therapist can ask you question about what goes through your mind related to sex and touch.
To begin, book a phone consult using the button below to meet with a sex and intimacy specialists in couples therapy.
All a female wants is to feel desired, wanted. Therefore, talking about what you are feeling can help with emotional connection and presence. Mindfulness elements related to touch in marriage counseling can help improve sexual desire in your relationship.
Your marriage therapist can offer you mindfulness exercises right in your counseling session.
Each person has different feelings that come from a partner touching them. To add, talking about touch and the emotions that come from touch is a key part of couples therapy. Some types of touch can lead to feelings of being cared for, loved, and special. Touch can lead to feelings of warmth and nurturing. Other times of touch can lead to feelings of protection, safety, and erotic desire.
Right in counseling for couples, our therapists teach mindfulness exercises to help couples be present.
If touch from your partner doesn’t feel safe or caring, your marriage therapist can talk about that with you. Also, if when you partner touches you, your mind is elsewhere on your job or laundry, your therapist can support mindfulness skills to be more mentally present.
Living in the present moment is essential to be able to enjoy sexual pleasure. Feeling cared for and protected is a foundational element of a healthy, satisfying, passionate sex life. Sharing about what you feel from your partner touch you is a form of intimacy.
Making a female feel wanted, can improve the physical and sexual intimacy that occurs later.
To begin, book a phone consult using the button below to meet with a sex and intimacy specialists in couples therapy.
What are examples of foreplay when working with the intimacy specialists in couples therapy?
Foreplay can include kissing, talking about what you might do sexually together, caressing the low back, forearms, or even doing a hand massage. Role play can also be fun to play with. Laying together, making out, and long hugs can all be part of foreplay. Holding hands every chance you get can be helpful in promoting bonding and security.
A foot massage can be a form of foreplay. Touch on non-sexual areas of the body can be parts of foreplay in a sexual experience.
Texting throughout the day can be a form of foreplay. Sending sexual text messages to one another or talking on the phone in a sexual way can be types of foreplay.
Talking dirty to your partner can be fun, playful, and bring erotic energy, thus rebuilding your intimate, sex life.
Telling your romantic partner about a past sexual experience that you really enjoyed can be foreplay for a future sexual experience.
You can talk about what part of your body you like your partner touching too. Tell your partner or spouse that they are so good at touching you and the passion and pleasure you feel from them caressing you.
Working with the Wisdom Within Counseling sex and intimacy specialists help couples feel confident talking about sex, sexual needs, and building sexual desire.
Why is foreplay essential for a happy, healthy sex life and how can sex, intimacy, and couples therapy help?
Foreplay allows a females mind to step away from the every day, responsibilities and duties of caretaking, caring for children, doing laundry, and even excelling in her career.
Building a sense of sexual desire back in your relationship can be a beautiful component to having a long-term relationship. So you’ve been married for a decade or two decades, you love and respect each other, but you know the sexual passion is missing.
To begin, book a phone consult using the button below to meet with a sex and intimacy specialists in couples therapy.
The team of therapists at Wisdom Within Counseling can help you spice up your sex life and create a satisfying sex life.
You might be having sex less frequently than you would like right now.
Or, when you are having sex, it doesn’t feel emotionally intimate.
Does sex feel like a chore to you?
For some couples, who are in long-term marriages, sex, feels like a chore. It is short, and boring. Working with the sex and intimacy specialists in couples therapy can help you bring passion into your sex life. Sexual experiences can become more fantastic, amazing, and allow you to flourish as a sexual beings together. Being able to enjoy sexual pleasure can be a benefit from sex, intimacy, and couples counseling.
You and your partner can start to exchange sexual experiences, talk about what you like, sexually, talk about sexual fantasies, and talk about new sex toys. Rebuilding your sex life means trying new and different things, which can lead to mystery and suspense in your sex life.
If your sex life is boring, or you have the same old routine every time, it is very common for one or both people to lose desire.
When sex feels like a chore, one or both people are emotionally disengaged. Emotional disconnection is a predictor of marriage separation, infidelity and cheating. The first moment you notice emotional disconnection or a lack of presence, reach out to us at Wisdom Within Counseling.
If sex feels like a chore, it’s normal for one or both people to have a lack of sexual desire.
Sex should not feel like a chore or task to check off a list. If sex feels like a chore, let the team of therapists at Wisdom Within Counseling help you rebuild intimate connection. As well, if sex feels like a chore, all the playfulness has vanished. It can be rough trying to have an erotic, passionate, and positive sex life when sex feels like a chore.
Sex and intimacy therapy at Wisdom Within Counseling supports emotional bonding. Couples therapy with a focus on sex and intimacy help couples develop emotional presence and intimate, intentional, and purposeful healthy touch.
Working with a sex, intimacy, couples and marriage therapist at Wisdom Within Counseling can help you level up your sex life and bring the spice back.
There may have been a variety of different setbacks over the course of your long-term marriage.
At first, your sex life was passionate, suspenseful, and you really enjoyed intercourse.
As well, it seems like foreplay with some thing that naturally happened. Ten or 20 years into your marraige, it’s normal for there to be cracks within your intimacy and your sex life.
Maybe, having children, it was one of those sexual setbacks. Every time you have sex, it feels less and less emotional.
Now is the time to jump into couples counseling, and work with a specialist when it comes to sex and intimacy.
To begin, book a phone consult using the button below to meet with a sex and intimacy specialists in couples therapy.
How does working with the sex and intimacy specialists in couples therapy at Wisdom Within Counseling help better my sex life?
Sex doesn’t have to just be penis and vaginal penetration. Working with the team of sex and intimacy specialists in couples therapy promotes variety and novelty.
And, sex doesn’t have to end with intercourse either. There can be a teasing that builds desire and sexual energy.
Sex can be an adventure, a playful space for you and your partner to bring about a new side of each other.
From working with an intimacy and sex therapist at Wisdom Within Counseling, and you can have a safe space to talk about trying new sex toys. Maybe, you want to try a vibrator, nipple clamps, butt plug, anal beads, or another kinky toy. Over time, our sexual needs change and evolve.
At Wisdom Within Counseling, we are a kink and BDSM affirming counseling practice.
As marriage and family therapists, we help couples share in intimate conversations about sexual desire, sexual pleasure, BDSM, and kinks.
All BDSM play scenes and experiences need to be consensual. This is where talking in couples therapy can be helpful for consent before trying BDSM play. When one person is dominant and one person takes on a submissive role, there can be a sense fo playfulness and excitement from a kinky experience.
Couples therapy can allow all people in a relationship to feel safe trying power play scenes from a consensual place.
Why do couples take part in BDSM and power play dynamics?
Power play dynamics in BDSM experiences can bring suspense, mystery, teasing, excitement, surprise, and new levels of trust. For couples who are kinky and play with BDSM, you get a safe place in therapy to process emotions that come along with power play dynamics.
Anxiety may need to be process after the power play BDSm scene. You can process feeling awkward, uncomfortable or worried, and gain connection to one another.
From marriage counseling, you can get on the same page again.
What you found sexy ten or twenty years ago many be changing now.
To begin, click below for a phone consult to work with a sex and intimacy specialist in couples therapy at Wisdom Within Counseling.
Talking about using a new sex toy with your partner may bring up fears of rejection or insecurities.
There can also be fear of introducing new sex toys that individual sessions can help process within the framework of couples counseling. Couples counseling can be a mix of individual therapy along with couples therapy to support better communication.
Marriage therapy at Wisdom Within Counseling can be a safe palce to share your sexual desires and interest in using new sex toys with your partner.
You get a safe place to be vulnerable emotionally in counseling for a better sex life. Asking your partner to try a new toy, or being encouraged by your sex, marriage, and intimate therapist can be fun.
Using new sex toys can spice up and help create a healthy, satisfying, and erotic sex life. Sex toys can provide a different type of stimulation and sex pleasure than the human hand. Your sex, intimacy, and couples therapist can help your partner understand you desires, sexual fantasies, and needs.
You might want to incorporate vibrators, lubricants, or even try having sex in different environments.
What is one way couples can spice up their sex life right now?
You could take your sexual experiences to different rooms in your house.
Many couples become accustomed to having sex in their bed. It can be very comfortable to have sex in a bed.
But, working with the team of sex and intimacy specialists in couples therapy helps support new environments. Having sex and playing sexually in new environment can be very positive for a better sex life.
Therefore, our sex and intimacy therapists encourage couples to try doing sexual things in new environments.
The team at Wisdom Within Counseling supports meaningful connection for couples through new, sexually playful experiences.
Try new environments and see how that spices things up
So, having sex in a hotel room, can bring a sense of spontaneity. Being in a hotel room can be a change of scenery.
Furthermore, having sex in the kitchen, or on top of the washing machine can bring a sense of passion and sexual desire back to a relationship. Having sex in each room of your house can be a fun thing to try to spice up your sex life.
Working with a couples therapist who specializes in intimacy and emotional connection can help you and your partner salvage your marriage and rebuild your sex life.
There can be a sense of variety that comes from talking with a sex intimacy therapist.
You don’t have to be stuck in the same old routine, or feel helpless about your sex life. As well, you don’t need to feel a sexless marriage is your whole future.
The team of marriage, sex, and intimacy therapists at Wisdom Within Counseling support couples need variety and unique experiences.
To begin, book a phone consult using the button below to meet with a sex and intimacy specialists in couples therapy.
Working with the team of sex and intimacy specialists in couples therapy helps with sexual education and confidence.
Maybe, you have sexual questions like you don’t know what to do when it comes to exploring your partners body. You can overcome sexual insecurities when meeting with a sex and intimacy specialist and for couples therapy.
Many times, people lack sexual education because we just don’t learn this in school.
We often don’t learn about the female orgasmic system, how to touch a clitoris, or how to talk about sex in school. You therapist can foster a positive conversation about deepening and embracing your sexuality.
Marriage therapy and couples counseling sessions at Wisdom Within can give you a safe place to talk about sex and better your sex life. the first step is opening the communication through counseling.
Working with a sexual intimacy therapist can help you know what to do to your partner’s body.
Build confidence to explore your partner’s body from working with a marriage, sex, and intimacy specialist
You might want to explore new area like touching your partner’s nipples or clitoris. Nipple play and nipple stimulation can be incredibly pleasurable for all genders. Playing around with a sensual, sexy, and sensitive area of the nipples can bring back a sense of sexual desire.
As well, in marriage therapy for a better sex life, you can talk about the clitoris. The clit, for short, is an important part of the female pleasure system.
The clitoris has internal and external components. Now, you don’t just want to jump to touching a females clitoris right away. Kissing, teasing, foreplay, and massaging of other areas first is key. Touching the clitoris right away without foreplay can be too overstimulating.
Touching the area very gently at first can be incredibly pleasurable while making out. Making out and touching her clitoris over clothes can be a good place to start.
Then slowly working your way underneath the pant line and touching a female clitoris can be incredibly pleasurable.
Sessions with the team at Wisdom Within Counseling can help you and your spouse spice up your sex life. Learning how to build up foreplay and erotic desire are powerful parts of intimacy counseling.
To begin, book a phone consult using the button below to meet with a sex and intimacy specialists in couples therapy.
Foreplay allows a female’s mind to get warmed up and see her self and her partner as sexual beings.
Building sexual and erotic desire starts with a female’s mind.
Playing with different areas of her body before touching her clitoris can allow her clitoris to become engorged with blood. Just like a male’s penis becomes erect with circulation and blood before orgasm, a female’s clitoris also becomes a little bit larger.
By working with a sex coach and intimacy therapist, you can have a safe place to talk about the female anatomy system.
As a female becomes more sexually aroused, her clit starts to throb with sexual pleasure. She starts to feel herself become an erotic, sexual being rather than mom, wife, friend, or employee.
What happens when a female becomes sexually aroused?
A female clitoris becomes larger as she becomes more sexually aroused. Over time, from kissing, nipple stimulation and play, and erotic touch not on her clitoris, a female’s clitoris will become engorged. More blood flow goes the the clitoris and a female’s vagina becomes more naturally lubricated and wet. The female pleasure system becomes aroused and prepares her body for sex.
Setting the sexual experience up from the beginning with lengthy foreplay can make sex more enjoyable and pleasure for a female. It takes more time for a female to become sexually aroused than a male’s body. In order to fully enjoy sexual pleasure, a female needs to be warmed up and fully aroused, which means 45-90 minutes of foreplay.
In sex and intimacy counseling at Wisdom Within, you might want to talk or ask questions about how to touch a female’s clit.
A female partner can gain a voice to share what she does or doesn’t like. Each person may want a different type of pressure or touch. You can gain sexual education about the female orgasmic system through marriage counseling. As well, you may have questions about the lightness or firmness of pressure.
The clitoris has a large number of sensors specifically for sexual pleasure. Learning how to touch and talking about touching a female’s clitoris can be a part of couples therapy. As well, the team at Wisdom Within Counseling help couples talk about what feels good and what they would like to change about sexual play. Talking about each of these sexual topics can help couples feel closer, take time for each other, and more deeply bond.
Working with the team of sex and intimacy specialists in couples therapy can help you learn how to build desire by touching a female’s clitoris.
Females need a slow buildup. Where as, a male partner may often need some thing more spontaneous or quick.
Education on sexual foreplay for male partners can help create a more passionate sexual experience. In marriage counseling, you can talk about the interplay between sexual desire, intimacy, and emotional connection. There can be fun in spontaneous sexual acts.
To begin, click the button below to learn more about how Wisdom Within Counseling can help you and your spouse reconnect, bond, and recover your sex life.
Couples get a safe place to talk about fears, apprehensions, anxiety, and insecurities in sex coaching and intimacy counseling.
Essentially, you get a safe space to heal the cracks in your marriage, improve your sex life, and have more passionate and satisfying sex.
Do you or your spouse dislike oral sex?
Maybe, one of you has apprehension about oral sex, whether that comes to giving or receiving. Oral sex can be a topic that couples avoid talking about. Working with the team at Wisdom Within Counseling can help you overcome any fears about giving or receiving oral sex. There can be fears related to past negative experiences, body image issues, or other sexual fears. Maybe, you are afraid fo the smell or taste, and couples counseling for sex and intimacy issues can help you process and talk.
Oral sex can be a wonderful part of a healthy sex life, but big emotions can get in the way. You can work through feeling frustrated, anxious, or insecure in marriage therapy.
If you want to improve your oral sex skills, Wisdom Within Counseling can help with overcoming sex and intimacy issues. You deserve to feel cared for an appreciated sexually.
You get a safe place to talk about oral sex at Wisdom Within Counseling.
Furthermore, you can talk about how to give oral sex in a way that pleasures your partner. You can talk about what you like when it comes to oral sex in the safety of your marriage therapist’s office. Body image issues and negative self-talk can lead to fears of intimacy and closeness.
It’s really normal to grow up with a sense of body, shame or body image issues.
Body image issues can contribute to sexual problems in your marriage.
Body image issues can lead to anxiety around sexual performance, giving and receiving. As a result of body image issues related to weight or body shape, a person might not want to receive or give oral sex.
Fears of gaining weight or shame about needing to loose weight can lead to sexual problems. Body shame vs. body confidence plays a huge role in a healthy, erotic, and satisfying sex life.
Counseling for sex and intimacy can help you become comfortable in the skin you are in and in your body.
Body confidence, self-esteem, and self-acceptance are benefits of working with a couples therapist who specializes in intimacy and sex.
Couples can work through where body shame comes from like cultural pressure to look a certain way.
Maybe, you come from a family of people who hated their bodies. Growing up around adults who were dieting and people always trying to loose weight can lead to body image issue sin adulthood. Even a past history of eating disorders can contribute to sex issues and intimacy problems in your marriage.
To begin, book a phone consult using the button below to meet with a sex and intimacy specialists in couples therapy.
Working with a marriage counselor that specializes in sex and intimacy can allow you to have a safe place to talk about giving and receiving oral sex.
Some people might not like the taste of their partner’s ejaculatory fluid, or cum. You can start to build erotic skills and sexual confidence in new ways that you never thought were possible.
Talking about how to start liking the taste of cum can be a part of working with the team of sex and intimacy specialists in couples therapy. At Wisdom Within Counseling, you can talk about what to do if you don’t like the taste of ejaculatory fluid, cum, or semen.
Are you in a sexless marriage and have stopped having sex?
Sex may be occurring less frequently than you’d like, or not at all. If you are in a sexless marriage, it might be completely sexless or sex may be very infrequent. Meeting with a sex coach or intimacy therapist at Wisdom Within Counseling can help figure out what happened.
Some couples have always had very infrequent sex. For other couples, they started off hot and heavy, and then grew into a sexless marriage.
To note, the longer you and your spouse don’t have sex, the harder it gets to bring it back on your own without the help of a professional. You may be stuck in room mate syndrome, where you are polite, respectful, and run a home together.
However, the passion, sexual pleasure, and sexy times are gone. Working with the team at Wisdom Within Counseling can help you make positive changes to change your sexless marriage.
Your spouse may be your best friend, but you need professional help from the Wisdom Within sex and intimacy specialists to get the spice back.
Finding creative ways to support giving and receiving oral sex is part of sex intimacy therapy.
Not many places are available for you to talk about emotional connection, sex, and intimacy. The team of therapists at Wisdom Within Counseling can help you talk about different fears you have to giving and receiving oral sex.
Are there sexual fears, anxieties, or insecurities holding you and your spouse back sexually?
Maybe, you are fearful receive oral sex because you had a toxic, abusive, ex partner, who criticize the smell of your vagina or your penis.
If an ex partner criticized the smell of your body in an intimate experience, you may be afraid to let a future partner give you oral sex. Fears and anxieties can come up around sex.
Another fear may be trying new things sexually. The current sex routine may be familiar or comfortable. Or, you may have anxiety regarding sexual performance, or anxiety about being good enough in bed.
Let’s talk about fears, anxiety, and uncomfortable emotions about sex and help you build an amazing sex life.
Talking about different emotions behind giving and receiving oral sex can be a part of marriage therapy and intimacy counseling. Let’s talk!
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How can connecting with a sex and intimacy specialists in couples therapy benefit my marriage?
Your sex coach and intimacy therapist can also teach you the most sensitive areas of your partners genital area and allow you to pleasure them in a way that increases sexual desire.
More easily giving and receiving sexual pleasure can be a part of sex intimacy therapy. There can be fears, traumas, and emotions under lack of desire or sexual rejection. The team at Wisdom Within Counseling are sex and intimacy specialists in couples therapy.
In couples therapy for a better sex life, you can talk about playfulness, adventure, and sexual satisfaction. Couples get a safe place to start feeling emotionally intimate as a root of a healthy, successful, satisfying, sex life.
You are not alone if you’re struggling with your sex life but you deeply love and respect respect your partner.
If you want to gain desire and playful, sexual skills, couples therapy at Wisdom Within Counseling can help.
Your sex therapist can recommend sexual homework to try with each other. You are in the right place to rebuild and rekindle erotic, sexual desire.
The team at Wisdom Within Counseling would love to help you if you are in a long-term relationship. If you feel you have to beg your partner for touch, our team of sex and intimacy specialists can help you and your spouse.
Let’s work together to rebuild pleasure, sexual desire, passion, and increase your libido.
You deserve to become both erotic, sexual partners and best friends.
