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Narcissistic abuse therapy – Heal after having a narcissistic spouse

Are you the problem solver or fixer in your relationships? Do you take on an overly forgiving role in relationships? Do you consider yourself empathetic and having been in a relationship with a narcissistic ex? Was everything a control issue for your narcissistic ex? Have you felt trapped by narcissistic exes? Were you walking on eggshells at home? Was your narcissistic spouse self-centered and selfish? Did you narcissistic ex make you feel loved and then make you feel terrible about yourself? Are you seeing the same toxic, narcissistic behaviors in your children? Child may repeat the same narcissistic behaviors they see a parent do. Do you consider yourself a narcissistic abuse victim? Narcissistic abuse therapy can help you regain confidence, clarity, and compassion for yourself. When you are looking for a therapist with experience with narcissism, you can work with the team at Wisdom Within Counseling.

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Any one of any age, nationality, race, and gender may have narcissistic personality traits. You don’t know your romantic partner is narcissistic at first. After years, you see their narcissistic traits loud and clear. You are struggling with anxiety, nervousness, depression, low self-worth, and other symptoms of trauma now. Living with a narcissist means you are facing emotional abuse regularly. Learning about emotional abuse can be very empowering.

Narcissistic abuse therapy can help you with getting over some difficult life experiences (grief, trauma, PTSD) from being with a narcissist.

Your narcissistic ex may have limited your finances or who you could talk to. If you made a small mistake, your narcissistic ex would belittle and shame you. Criticism is common from a narcissistic partner. You may be suffering from low self-esteem and self-doubt from negative comments from a narcissist.

Counseling for narcissistic abuse can help you build yourself up and believe in yourself again. Your therapist at Wisdom Within Counseling can help you heal after narcissistic abuse. You can release blame and stop being so hard on yourself. A narcissist commonly preys on an empathetic person like yourself. It is not your fault when you have been in a relationship with a narcissist. They often pick you. Narcissistic abuse therapy can help you see your empathy as a superpower.

To add, narcissists will often push the blame on their victim.

Commonly, narcissists blame others for their own challenging, narcissistic personality traits. A narcissistic spouse will always project onto their victim and blame their victim. Instead of taking responsibility, or apologizing, a narcissistic partner will be critical. The narcissist in your life will use mean threats and harsh words. And, they will avoid looking at themselves. With counseling, it is possible to heal after having a narcissistic spouse.

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Narcissistic spouses will often shift blame onto their victim, making their victim feel insecure.

You may be unsure when your narcissistic spouse or ex spouse would explode in rage. When a victim feels insecure, they feel powerless around a narcissistic partner. A narcissist wants their victim to rely on them to feel better. So, after belittling and blaming you, the narcissistic spouse will then be kind to you. Notably, a narcissistic person is not abusive all the time. There is a cycle to narcissistic abuse that you can learn about in therapy.

Do you suffer from trauma and PTSD symptoms? Narcissistic abuse therapy at Wisdom Within Counseling can support positive coping tools.

As a spouse or ex spouse to a narcissist, you may suffer from trauma symptoms and PTSD. As a result of toxic relationship abuse, you may have appetite changes, sleep issues, feel low in self-esteem, have anxiety, and depression. Concentration issues are common for victims of toxic relationship abuse. You may feel unworthy of love and respect from the relationship abuse. As well, you may struggle with intense, complex emotions of anger, sadness, grief, and frustration. You might experience PTSD flashbacks to events where you narcissistic spouse was explosive and angry. Sometimes, you feel scared and fearful in your own home. Narcissistic abuse therapy at Wisdom Within Counseling can help you cope with symptoms of trauma and PTSD.

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There are cycles of highs and lows when you are in a relationship with a narcissist.  

When the narcissist in your life is blaming you, you might find yourself getting angry or frustrated. Instead of becoming angry, because you feel helpless or powerless, narcissistic abuse therapy at Wisdom Within Counseling can help you stay calm. Working with a therapist, who understands narcissistic abuse, can help you learn positive coping strategies. You might not be able to control the narcissist in your life. No matter how often you tell them that you want to be treated better, they still put you down.

Instead of trying to fix the narcissist in your life, your narcissistic abuse therapist can help you gain positive strategies to cope.

It may not be positive to verbalize that you feel hurt to a narcissist. They can’t empathize. Instead, you can learn how to release your feelings in healthy ways with holistic coping tools. Through narcissistic abuse counseling, you can learn to remove the blame you have put on yourself.

You can remove the blame and hateful comments the narcissist in your life has pushed on you as well. Counseling for narcissistic abuse can help you identify insults and choose to shrug them off. Narcissistic abuse therapy supports you in having a confident voice again. You can find ways to not let narcissistic abuse impact you and positively cope. 

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Narcissistic people isolate you, so no one can see the abuse that is really going on.

And, the narcissist in your life will often try to make you think that you need them more than anyone else.

They might be trying to isolate you from your friends, family, and even your coworkers. A narcissist might ask that you stop working. That may isolate you from your work community. As well, a narcissist may tell you that your friends don’t treat you well. Now, this is not with your best interest in mind and not by the kindness of their heart. Instead, a narcissist is trying to get you to rely on them and isolate you.

Narcissists don’t want you to have a support network. They don’t want you talking about the toxic relationship abuse that may be occurring. A narcissistic spouse wants you to be dependent on them for your self-confidence.

The more distant you are from friends and family, the more a narcissist can manipulate you.

Rather than having a strong friend group and support network, victims of narcissistic abuse tend to rely heavily on their narcissistic partner. Counseling for narcissistic abuse can help you identify healthy support groups to join. Recovering from toxic relationship abuse means doing things for yourself again. In the relationship with the narcissist, you had a habit of giving and giving. Now, in healing from that relationship, you can learn to give back to yourself.

You can learn to be socially confident and get back out there through Narcissistic abuse therapy at Wisdom Within Counseling.

At first, meeting new friends may give you social anxiety. Rather than staying socially isolated, you can heal after narcissistic abuse. Socializing can be new at first after experiencing isolation. However, narcissistic abuse therapy at Wisdom Within Counseling can help you feel confident socializing. You may even choose to join an art class or hiking club to socialize and get in touch with yourself again.

Art therapies can help victims of toxic relationship abuse heal.

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Your narcissistic abuse therapist can help you find social groups that you enjoy.

Maybe, in the toxic relationship, the narcissist made all the decisions. You didn’t have a say and were passive. Now, in healing, you get to have a voice and a say in what you want to do with your time. You may have lost a huge part of yourself being in the toxic relationship with a narcissistic spouse. It might feel like the narcissist in your life has drained you have all your joy. Depression is normal after narcissistic abuse.

In a toxic relationship, you may have felt like you gave your identity to your abuser. In your healing process after toxic relationship abuse, you might get involved in your local library or a book club. Counseling for narcissistic abuse can help you identify which hobbies you enjoy.

To note, counseling for a narcissistic abuse can help you take back your power.

You can gain confidence to do new things like pick up a musical instrument or new hobby. As well, you might want to try cooking a new recipe.

Developing your own identity is a part of healing from narcissistic abuse.

You get to reinvent yourself after leaving a narcissistic romantic partner. Maybe, you want to take a pottery wheel or painting class. Think about what you felt you weren’t allowed to do in the relationship, and try doing it. Maybe, you want to try surfing, hike a National park, or go rock climbing. You and your narcissistic abuse therapist can talk about what help you feel calm, relaxed and yourself again. 

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An excessive need for admiration

  • A high sense of their own importance
  • Narcissists expect other people to be happy and interested
  • Sense of entitlement
  • Demanding
  • Believe rules don’t apply to them.
  • Feel entitled to special treatment.
  • Expecting others to constantly give to them
  • Arrogant and egotistic
  • They don’t treat everyone equally
  • Never grateful or appreciative

When you have a narcissistic, romantic partner, they will have an excessive need for admiration. Narcissistic people have a high sense of their own importance. They come before all others. Even in a significant relationship, a narcissist will always put themselves first.

As well, narcissists expect other people to be happy and interested in them all the time. If you have done some thing praiseworthy, a narcissist will have a difficult time giving you praise. When a narcissist does some thing that they want praise for, they expect you praise them for days. They want attention from you and you to be happy and interested in their accomplishments. Narcissists like being the center of attention.

When a narcissistic person has a loving partner, it can be very difficult for a narcissist to show appreciation. When you clean the house, make the bed, and do everything right, it can be very difficult for a narcissist to give you the praise that you deserve. They don’t seem to show gratitude or appreciation very easily. 

Many times, narcissistic people have a sense of entitlement. As a result, they may be demanding. You might find a narcissistic person is demanding with a service worker, waitress, or plain rude to hotel receptionist.

Rules don’t apply to the narcissist. They feel that they are above and beyond the rules. For instance, if there is a sign that says you must pick up after your dog when walking them, the narcissist will not pick up after their dog, because they feel the rules don’t apply to them.

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Also, a narcissist will often feel entitled to special treatment. As a result, they may even partake in dangerous behaviors, like drinking and driving. They may act reckless, without thinking of the dangerous impact to others.  

Narcissists expect others to give to them, but do not give back in the same way. This is why romantic relationships with narcissists can feel exhausting and draining.

When you are a highly empathetic person, a narcissist might prey on you. They come off as charismatic and chivalrous in the beginning of a romantic relationship. However, shortly into the relationship, you see the narcissistic, arrogant, and egotistical side.

A narcissist not treat everyone equally. There are some people that the narcissist favors over others. A narcissistic parent may favor, one child over the other. This causes one child to feel like the favorite and the other child to feel much less than.

You may feel lonely, ignored, and unimportant in a marriage or romantic relationship with a narcissist.

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Love bombing is common when you have a narcissistic spouse

After a hurtful conflict, a narcissist might love bomb you. They shower you with gifts to make you stay in a toxic relationship. Instead of changing a negative behavior, a narcissist will buy you gifts. When you need support and comfort, a narcissistic person can’t really connect to your feelings.

A narcissistic person may buy you gifts to show you their love. But, they do not often create emotional security in relationships. Commonly, narcissistic people will love bomb their romantic partner in an effort to make them stay in the relationship.

Love from a narcissistic person tends to be conditional, and they love you only when you are giving to them. As a result, you might feel exhausted from being in a relationship with your narcissistic spouse or ex spouse. 

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Narcissistic people have a lack of empathy and lack consideration for other people

Narcissistic people have a very low level of empathy and cannot relate well to others. Reading emotions is very difficult for a narcissistic person. a narcissistic person will often say things that are hurtful, mean, and even callous. This can make it very difficult for narcissistic people to sustain long-term relationships.

In order for a romantic relationship to be successful, a narcissist will often prey on a highly empathetic person.

Being with a highly empathetic person allows a narcissist to feel understood. However, their empathetic partner often faces negative consequences because they don’t receive emotional support back.  

How does someone become narcissistic?

Narcissistic people may not have had a caregiver or parent in their own childhood who showed them how to be empathetic. As well, narcissistic people may have faced complex childhood abuse, trauma, and neglect themselves. This is no excuse for narcissistic behavior, and a lack of empathy. But, therapy can help a narcissist gain insight, and make changes to better their relationships with others.

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Narcissistic people often have severe and complex childhood trauma histories that can be worked through with a toxic relationship specialist.

Even though deep empathy may not be possible, a narcissist, who is willing to put in the work, may be able to slightly increase their empathy. It takes the professional help of an outside therapist to help a narcissist, fully understand how they’ve hurt others. Complex trauma counseling can help them get in touch with emotions like regret, feel guilt, and even get in touch with sadness.  

Due to complex childhood trauma, a narcissist may have learned to shut off their emotions when they were very young child. A narcissist may have been punished for showing emotions. Therefore, they learned that lacking empathy was necessary to get through. Being selfish and lacking empathy were actually survival mechanisms. Though these are complex trauma reactions and survival qualities, in romantic relationships, these traits are very negative. A narcissist will benefit from therapy to learn a healthy ways of communicating when it comes to building a loving and caring marriage.  

As a spouse to a narcissist, you may feel many painful emotions. 

Their lack of empathy as a whole can be exhausting and defeating. Additionally, narcissistic people become very self-centered. Toxic relationship behaviors can be very challenging.

A narcissistic person cares more about their own success, and their own control and power, rather than your emotions or feelings.

When you talk to a narcissist about how they’ve hurt your feelings, their lack of empathy will often cause them to blame you. A narcissistic person may laugh when you are crying. They will not be able to understand why you are sad or hurt. You might ask a narcissist to stop calling you hurtful names or stop belittling you. Because they cannot empathize with how they have hurt you or your feelings, it is very challenging for a narcissist act in a genuine, loving way.

Narcissistic people often lack empathy for others. Counseling can help you heal after having a narcissistic spouse.

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Was your ex self-centered, arrogant and selfish in their behavior?

As well, you may current have or have had an ex romantic partner, who was incredibly self-centered, arrogant, and selfish. You may feel depleted, exhausted, and emotionally drained from interactions with them.

Even though you might love your narcissistic spouse or ex, you might be realizing you need to set some healthy boundaries with them. Some people can’t cut out the narcissist in their life because they have to raise children or coparent together.

Working with a therapist can help you gain positive coping strategies to deal with narcissistic individuals in your life.

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One thing that you can do is to remove expectations.

Do not expect the narcissist in your life to become any less self-centered or less arrogant than they already are. Trying to change a narcissist, or forcing them to be different, will only lead to your own suffering.  When people lack empathy, it can be very difficult, especially when you are a highly sensitive person. Your ex spouse, who is narcissistic, may have said mean and hurtful things to you. They may have been a giant bully. The narcissist in your life may be emotionally and capable of recognizing how they have hurt you.

Instead of continually getting into arguments, you can learn to set healthy boundaries with the help of your therapist.  

You can focus on the times when the narcissist in your life is loving and caring to your children. At the same time, you can see the narcissist for who they are, without getting angry or upset with them. By seeing the narcissist for who they are, you are practicing your radical acceptance skills.

Instead of needing to change or fix them, you take back your power by setting healthy boundaries.  

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Process grief and loss in narcissistic abuse therapy at Wisdom Within Counseling

When you have an ex who is narcissistic, you may have felt sad about how you were treated in your marriage. Your narcissistic abuse therapist at Wisdom Within Counseling can help you take time to grieve. You may need to mourn the marriage you thought you had. It may be helpful for you to grieve the loss of your relationship. Maybe, you expected your spouse to be a different person than they were.

Remove self-blame

When you have a narcissistic ex or current romantic partner, you might be blaming yourself. When you file for divorce, you might blame yourself for the ending of the relationship. Working with a narcissistic abuse therapist can help you remove self blame in self-hatred. You may truly believe that you could have changed them if only loved them more. From counseling with a narcissistic abuse specialist, you can learn to remove self blame.

It is never your fault for having attracted a narcissist, or having loved a narcissist. If you love someone who is self-centered, it’s not your fault that they are mean to you.

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Your narcissistic abuse therapist can help you gain positive self talk skills.

Being around someone who is verbally and emotionally abusive, can lead you, as a spouse, to feel low self-esteem.

As well, you can overcome the mean statements, the narcissist in your life has told you. You may have started to believe the hurtful statements that your narcissistic ex spouse said about you. They may have been very belittling, hurtful, and you might need help rebuilding your self-worth.

Talking with a therapist can help you set healthy boundaries when you still have to have a narcissist in your life due to coparenting responsibilities. 

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Narcissistic abuse therapy can help you overcome manipulative, selfish, patronizing, and demanding behavior from a narcissistic ex

When it comes to manipulation, a narcissist will often think about how they can use others to get what they want. For instance, a narcissist may decide to play the victim. It can be very manipulative to switch the blame onto a victim. Instead of apologizing for saying something hurtful, a narcissistic person will laugh it off as a joke.

A narcissistic person is incredibly insensitive emotionally.

When you have experienced manipulation from a narcissist, you may have become familiar with gaslighting. Gaslighting is a form of crazy making. Also, a narcissist will lie, make threats, and be very hurtful. For instance, a narcissist may have an anger episode or explosive fight. They might break something. And then, the next morning, they deny it happened entirely. Despite seeing broken glass on the floor, the narcissist will deny all responsibility and blame their victim. As well, a narcissist may even say that their victim made them do it, and refuse to take accountability for their own behaviors.

Narcissists may also use unhealthy forms of communication, like criticism, belittling, defensiveness, and blame.

Narcissists withhold love.

Ghosting is a common manipulation, tactic along with withdrawing love. Because a narcissist may have had inconsistent role models growing up, they have inconsistent behaviors of love. Therefore, they are unable to give consistent, genuine love. And, a narcissist may be in your life and very supportive when things are going well. However, when you want to talk to them about emotions or manipulation tactics, they might ghost you. Additionally, a narcissist may withdraw physical affection. A narcissist may use sex as a form of power in their romantic relationships.

Exhausting conversations

You and a narcissistic spouse may take hours talking. On that note, you may be having what you think is a constructive conversation and come to a mutual agreement. Then, immediately, after that conversation, a narcissistic person will do the exact opposite of your mutual agreement. It’s very common for narcissistic people to disregard others.

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Threats and revenge are common when you have a narcissistic spouse

As well, someone who is narcissistic may be spiteful and take revenge. They may intentionally want you to feel hurt , so they may do some thing very revengeful. Revenge behaviors can include destroying property. A narcissist may try to get you fired from your place of employment. As well, narcissistic people may threaten to or actually expose a secret. For instance, if you have come out as bisexual to them, but you haven’t told anyone else, a narcissist will often threaten to out you as a form of power and control.

Explosive anger issues in narcissists

A narcissistic person can go from 0 to 100 in a split second, may even become physically, violent, and domestically violent. When a narcissistic person is angry, they do not use healthy communication techniques. Instead, they use power and control to manipulate their partner into obedience.  

Narcissistic people tend to have severe anger issues. Anger issues can be scary for the whole family, including children. Not only does anger impact you as a spouse, but it also impacts your children. Unfortunately, children may begin repeating narcissistic behaviors your spouse demonstrates. Children are always mirroring parental figures, and can start to imitate bad behaviors. Your children may be observing your spouse acting in toxic, hurtful ways. They may start to think behavior like that is okay or acceptable. Children who have a narcissistic parent may have more trouble making and maintaining friendships. School issues may be a problem. Counseling can help you talk to your children about healthy ways to release anger.

Also, a spouse to a narcissistic person may live in fear and have a high level of anxiety.

After being explosive in anger, a narcissistic person may refuse to engage in talking. They refuse to have healthy conversations about their behavior. A narcissist may commonly shut down, stonewall, and refuse to talk. You may have received the silent treatment from your narcissistic spouse. Narcissistic people are very good at shutting themselves down emotionally due to lack of empathy. Additionally, a narcissistic spouse or romantic partner may even give you the cold shoulder when you in fact are needing comfort and attention.

Narcissistic people are very good at withdrawing love as a form of power and control, especially in moments when you need and deserve it the most. 

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Lack of boundaries is a common trait of narcissistic people

When you have a narcissistic spouse or soon to be ex spouse, it may be very difficult for them to accept your boundaries. The narcissist may believe that your body is their property. Sexual abuse is very common in narcissistic relationships. As well, narcissist may tell you that if you have sex with them, the relationship will get better. A narcissist may lure you with sex and pleasure.

As well, narcissistic people may push your boundaries. When you have said, “No” to something, they will try to squash your boundary.

Working with a narcissistic abuse specialist at Wisdom Within Counseling can help you maintain boundaries.

From therapy, you can develop the confidence and self-assurance to maintain boundaries with a narcissist. When you are coparenting with who is narcissistic, you may need help defending your boundaries. You don’t need to explain to the narcissist why you are setting the boundaries. However, you may need professional help to be sure you are using a confident tone of voice.

Your therapist can help you choose the most effective way to react too. For instance, one boundary might be communicating on the phone during a scheduled time each week. Rather than inconsistent, phone calls or phone calls at random times of the day, schedules can be helpful. Having a planned time and date for a weekly phone call can help with organization and reliability. Counseling can help you set boundaries and heal after having a narcissistic spouse.

You can talk with your therapist about any other co-parenting boundaries that may be helpful.

It may be triggering for you to go in the home of a narcissistic ex spouse. Therefore, you might start meeting in a more neutral location like a coffee shop or a park to get your children. You can identify your triggers in counseling. From having a narcissistic ex spouse, you may need a variety of healthy boundaries.

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Your narcissistic abuse therapist can also help you get in touch with your intuition again.

As a result of being in a relationship with a narcissist, you may have lost touch with your own intuitive signals. You may have been living in such a high anxiety state that you have suffered trouble sleeping. You may wake up in the middle of the night with anxiety.

After being in a relationship with a narcissist, you might need help relaxing. Your narcissistic abuse therapist can teach you strategies and tools to help you feel safe in the world again. You can use meditation, mindfulness meditation and breathing techniques in therapy. As well, creative art and painting can relieve anxiety and help you trust your intuition again. At Wisdom Within Counseling, we specialize in creative and holistic therapies that help you get back in touch with your own intuitive wisdom.

From being in touch with yourself, you can be more aware of what boundaries you need. Boundaries tell others that you recognize that you deserve to be treated in a respectful manner. A boundary can be a way to state what you will tolerate and what you won’t tolerate. 

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When you have experienced narcissistic abuse from a spouse or significant other, you are not alone.

You may have been told that you were “too crazy.” The narcissist may have said you were acting in a way that was, “too sensitive.” Or, you may have been blamed for their toxic relationship behaviors. Counseling can help you fully heal after having a narcissistic spouse.

It is not your fault when you find yourself in a romantic relationship with a narcissistic person. You can learn to take back your power through working with a narcissistic abuse specialist at Wisdom Within Counseling.

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With your narcissistic abuse therapist at Wisdom Within Counseling, you can realize that you are not too sensitive or crazy.

Instead, you can recognize that the narcissistic person in your life was emotionally abusive to you. When they become angry and explosive, or had a rage explosion, this caused you to feel sensitive in a normal and natural way. Working with a narcissistic abuse therapist can help you set boundaries so that you no longer have to feel hurt or manipulated by the narcissistic person in your life.

Your therapist can teach you how to say, “No.” Learning to say, “No,” can help you take back your power. You can start to feel less exhausted by all of the conflict and arguing. As well, you can start to appreciate and connect with your own feelings.

You can prioritize your own needs and feelings in ways you never have before by meeting with a narcissistic abuse therapist at Wisdom Within Counseling.

Your therapist can help you communicate what you are needing in an effective way rather than over explaining. Instead of feeling upset that the narcissist in your life won’t apologize and won’t take responsibility, you can start to be your own best friend.

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As well, your therapist can help you create a healthy sense of self. Art, yoga, music, and creative holistic therapies offer mind body connection after abuse. Wisdom Within Counseling offers more than just traditional talk therapy for healing from toxic relationship abuse.

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The team of therapists at Wisdom Within Counseling offer mind body, somatic therapies.

Mindbody techniques like art, yoga, and walking therapies can be helpful for many complex trauma symptoms.

Mind body therapies encourage self-care, relaxation, and improve positive coping skills.

Painting or going for a walk can reduce tension and body pain that occur from trauma. As well, learning holistic coping tools may lessen the need for medication. For example, many mind body therapies offer outlets for intense emotions. You can release grief, loss, anger, and hurt through art, yoga, music, and holistic therapy. Healing after having a narcissistic spouse means reconnecting to your mind and body.

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Walk and talk therapy supports inner peace

To begin, click below for a phone consult for narcissistic abuse therapy at Wisdom Within Counseling.

How can meeting with your narcissistic abuse therapist be beneficial after being in a toxic relationship or marriage?

You can feel empowerment to do hobbies that bring you joy, from narcissistic abuse counseling.

Additionally, your narcissistic abuse therapist can encourage you to pursue your goals and socialize regularly. When you notice a negative thought or limiting belief in your mind, your therapist can teach positive self talk skills.

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You can talk about your story and share what it has been like to be in a toxic relationship.  

Living with a narcissistic spouse means you have been walking on eggshells in your own home.

You may have felt like a distant guest in your own home living with a narcissist. From counseling, with a narcissistic abuse specialist, you can start to heal, gain confidence, and compassion.

You can appreciate yourself for surviving all you’ve been through. As well, you can focus on creating healthy relationship boundaries from therapy. In counseling, you can overcome intense emotions and process feelings, such as anxiety and anger.

Working with a therapist who specializes in narcissistic abuse can help you process and heal from the emotional and toxic relationship behavior.

You can start to attract healthier friendships as a result of complex trauma therapy. And, you can start to recognize all of your strengths and see yourself as a resilient person, rather than a victim. From narcissistic abuse therapy, you can prevent yourself from falling under the spell of another narcissist.

You can learn about red flags, so you don’t end up finding another narcissistic person in the future. In narcissistic abuse therapy, you can become more aware of toxic relationship behaviors upfront. Therapy for can help you become more perceptive, and attract a healthy partner to have a better future. You can gain self-confidence, self-worth, and improve your self-esteem through counseling.

The team at Wisdom Within Counseling are specialists when it comes to toxic relationship behaviors, narcissistic abuse, and complex trauma.

Katie Ziskind is a licensed marriage and family therapist in Connecticut and Florida. She runs a team of therapists who are passionate about helping adults and couples heal from toxic relationship abuse. You can work with a narcissistic abuse specialist. Wisdom Within Counseling offers video therapy as well as in person therapy in Connecticut.

To begin, click below for a phone consult for narcissistic abuse therapy at Wisdom Within Counseling.

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