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Often, comparisons to pornography videos end up leaving individuals thinking they can’t preform. Porn video can be erotic material. However, they can cause people to have unrealistic expectations of sex.
You may never know what your body or your partner’s body is capable.
If you do not work with an intimacy therapist and marriage therapist in Connecticut, you don’t know how it could create a better sex life. In marriage counseling, you can learn more about your body and your partner’s. Couples can talk about building a passionate, open, euphoric sex life.
Females can learn skills for multiple orgasms in intimacy therapy and marriage counseling.
For the female body to reach an orgasm, mindfulness is essential. There is a gap of knowledge for most people around creating a satisfying sex life and sexual pleasure. Plus, porn doesn’t show reality. Pornography can create low self-esteem and insecurity to measure up.
Having multiple orgasms is something that many people enjoy, and it is a skill of training.
Sex and intimacy can be really hard sometimes. Fears, anxiety, and worry can all get in the way. Plus, fears of intimacy and low sexual confidence issues are parts of intimacy counseling. And, being sexy and playful in the bedroom can get confusing if you feel rejection from your partner. Sometimes, building a healthy sex life takes the help of a sex positive marriage counselor in Connecticut.
Insecurities and fears as well as anxieties around sexual performance can arise.
Notably, any fears, body image issues, or anxiety will prevent and dampen pleasure. In this article, we will talk about building intimacy, and working up to multiple orgasms. Lastly, you can build skills to support your female partner in experiencing multiple orgasms in intimacy therapy and marriage counseling.
Multiple orgasms can create a pleasurable sex life.
Couples therapy and intimacy counseling can support a female partner and feeling relaxed and safe.
Often times, people do not get sex education in school. Being in a long-term relationship can stimulate wanting to learn about sex and pleasuring your partner. It is common for people looking for a more satisfying sex life reach out for marriage and intimacy counseling.
Learning about your own body, erogenous zones, and love needs are parts of marriage therapy.
For instance, for a female, touch and breathing on the erogenous zones can stimulate vaginal wetness. As well, women can more easily orgasm following stimulation of these zones. Likewise, a partner of a female can learn to use these hot spots to play. Plus, having an energy of play supports desire, sexual arousal, and passion.
Furthermore, partners can alternate between erogenous zones to create desire and pleasure. Some women like lips and oral stimulation. On the other hand, some women prefer manual simulation on breasts, the clitoris, and nipples. Often, both manual and oral stimulation on a variety of ares of the female body supports sexual pleasure.
Some of the most powerful erogenous zones to support a female orgasm include nipples, breasts, lips, neck, ears, and buttocks.
In marriage and intimacy counseling in Southeastern Connecticut, female partners are encouraged to speak about what ares they enjoy simulation. As well, females may experience difficulty in achieving orgasm when there is lack of communication. Improving communication around sexual pleasure in couples therapy support a healthy sex life. In intimacy therapy and marriage counseling in Connecticut, partners get to talk about sexual pleasure. You can share about what methods you like on your erogenous zones.
You don’t have to be a porn star to have multiple orgasms or passionate intimacy in your marriage.
At Wisdom Within Counseling, you can learn techniques for supporting multiple orgasms in intimacy therapy and marriage counseling.
Sex is a skill and just some education can go a long way in your marriage
How do multiple orgasms in inimtacy therapy and marriage counseling work?
Some women have an easier time reaching multiple orgasm, and orgasming in general. Many times, women need help learning to receive the arousal and be in a present state. AS well, women need support knowing it okay to relax and receive. For instance, some women who have sexual experiences more frequently, may have multiple orgasm. As well, for females, their time to next orgasm is lower than males. This is called the refractory period. As well, as a female becomes more aroused, her clitoris becomes enlarged in a similar way to a male’s penis. Understand how to touch her clitoris is key. Lastly, offering different types of simulation encourage multiple orgasms.
To begin, click the button below to book your phone consult to learn about multiple orgasms in inimtacy therapy and marriage counseling.
As well, multiple orgasm can be in one sexual experience, or over the course of extending the orgasm.
Pressure, rhythm, smell, and surroundings all play a role in multiple orgasm. To note, having low light and a soothing environment supports relaxation. Additionally, to support a better sex life, you can try new environments. For instance, going to a public dressing room can be a fun, nw sexual environment. Again, different erogenous zones of the female body can create different types of orgasms.
In a sexual experience, a female can release parts of herself emotionally and ride the waves of desire.
To note, touching the inner wrist, anus, breasts, nape of the neck, and ear lobes can create sexual arousal. Furthermore, females need more foreplay and time with these areas receiving stimulation. For example, touching nipples can lead to a nipple orgasm.
Touching the clitoris supports a clitoral orgasm. And, it is important to incorporate these before sexual intercourse. In the moment, a female can learn skills for mindfulness to feel into her own body. As well, clitoral stimulation can lead to another orgasm.
Different types of stimulation promote the female orgasm
The use of sex toys and vibrators can support additional orgasms. Coconut oil, lubricants, and sex toys can provide sexual pleasure.
To note, changing the type of sensation and area of the body provides a female with a variety of sexual sensation. Touching a variety of areas keeps the female heart rate up, combing pleasure. Essentially, back to back orgasms mean being able to explore all parts of the female body. Multiple orgasms in intimacy therapy and marriage counseling support emotional expression. Additionally, multiple orgasms can be a part of BDSM role plays.
Can BDSM be a part of multiple orgasms in Southeastern Connecticut intimacy counseling and marriage therapy?
Often, couples who partake in BDSM may feel the pleasure of sexual experiences combined with pain. BDSM can include domination and submission. Essentially, BDSM can be more the “Fifty Shades of Grey.”
Elements of suspense, desire, pain, trust, and communication come into BDSM.
As well, BDSM stands for bondage, and discipline, dominance and submission, and sadism and masochism. And, there are many levels to BDSM. For some, BDSM is reading erotic books like those by Silvia Day. In general, BDSM activities may involve physical restriction, dominance and the administration of pain. Overall, there as aspects of submission, adventure, and sexual pleasure.
Is craving sexual pleasure healthy?
Some may say so. To note, BDSM practitioners have less depression, anxiety, post-traumatic stress disorder (PTSD). Essentially, there is a massive endorphin, sereotnin and dopamine rush in sexual play. To note, couples counseling give you a safe place to speak about consent and boundaries. Consent is essentially in BDSM role play scenes. For instance, a partner in a submissive role gets told what to do. To add, the process of being whipped, spanked, and tortured to some degree supports emotional release. Often, people have roles they prefer.
What about role play in improving sex life?
One person may prefer to be in a domination role and the other person may prefer the submissive role. Other times, couples may switch between roles in different sexual experiences. As well, different names are a part of BDSM.
Kink, BDSM, and sexual diversity
The person in the dominant role is called, “the master.” Each couples may create specific and personalized names for each other. Dom and sub roles provide emotional release. Now, the partner in the dominant sexual role may correct their submissive parter. As well, the dominant partner may withhold touch and play, tease, and edge their submissive partner.
As well, a submissive may poke fun at her dominate sexual partner. Lastly, in a BDSM scene, pain creates a connection, excitement, suspense, and depth. Rough sex, kinky sex can invite play and spice into your sex life.
To add, the team at Wisdom Within Counseling is affirming to BDSM and sexually diverse clients, including those with sub and dom roles.
Often, couples fear being judged or misunderstood in therapy for BDSM or kinky sexual preferences. As well, intimacy counseling in Southeastern Connecticut helps sexually frustrated couples explore their unique sexual needs. Couples can create sexual identities to solve problems in ways that are nurturing and sexy for them.
At times, relationship counseling helps couples in which one partner is poly and the other is not.
Counseling can support parenting children of polyamorous families and couples. As well, our team of therapist are affirming to non-monogamous and polyamorous individuals.
BDSM sex toys in intimacy and marriage counseling
Then, the dominate sexual partner may use a collar, ties, ropes, a blindfold, feathers, or handcuffs. In a BDSM sexual experience, partners may feel a variety of emotions. Intimacy therapy and marriage counseling can be a safe place to explore emotions around BDSM.
In positive examples, BDSM can be very positive for enhancing the sex life of bored couples. On the other hand, some BDSM scenes can go very wrong when boundaries are crossed. Lastly, the team of marriage therapists at Wisdom Within Counseling in Southeastern Connecticut are kink friendly and sex positive.
Does good sex mean orgasming every time?
Nope, you don’t need to have an orgasm to have a pleasurable, connecting sexual experience. The mind, body and spirit are all interwoven. Within speaking about multiple orgasms, it is important to note that sex doesn’t have to include orgasming. Though, women who have regular orgasms have reductions in pain. During an orgasm, a women may experience feelings of tension and relaxation at the same time. She may feel she is floating after orgasming.
What happens after the female orgasm?
After her orgasm, she may have a rush of peacefulness and living in the here and now. She may forget her stresses and be fully authentic in emotion. After her orgasm, a female clitoris may become more sensitive.
Then, her partner may continue simulation on different parts of her body to build another orgasm. The pleasure of one orgasm can be stacked to create multiple orgasms. Overall, multiple orgasms takes sexual confidence. Additionally, reading erotica material together can be a way to build up to an orgasm. So, Connecticut marriage and intimacy therapy can support couples in overcoming sexual fears and insecurities.
You can talk about multiple orgasms in intimacy therapy and marriage counseling in Southeastern Connecticut, which only require playful training.
So, if you want to learn about multiple orgasming, it is a skill and possibility for your relationship. Importantly, if a female has a high sex drive and feels sexually hungry, counseling can help.
Couples in Southeastern Connecticut intimacy counseling can talk about sexual libidos and sexual frustrations. Often, there are feelings of rejection or sadness under the anger. A female who is feeling sexual frustration due to not orgasming may experience irritation or anger.
The giver and the receiver when it comes to multiple orgasms in inimtacy therapy and marriage counseling
Notably, a women needs to get her brain in to a safe, secure, trusting state. Her partner can support her in this sexual journey. As well, doing different movements and setting outside of the same routine is essential. Many times, couples feel bored. Overall, sex life can feel stale, old, or non eventful. In general, at Wisdom Within Counseling, we encourage couples to try different types of touch and toys in their sexual experiences.
To begin, click the button below to book your phone consult to learn about multiple orgasms in inimtacy therapy and marriage counseling.
Couples who struggle this can be where inimtacy therapy and marriage counseling comes in.
To have an orgasm, there is a state of mindfulness and presence necessary. As well, for females, there is a level of sexual arousal, mystery, suspense, and play. Also, any anxiety, worry, fear, or mistrust does not create a happy, pleasurable, exciting sexual experience. Lastly, feeling turned on goes along with relaxation to promote a state for an orgasm.
Intimacy therapy and marriage counseling in Southeastern Connecticut helps women share blocks.
For instance, emotional conversations before physical intimacy can help her feel relaxation. To add, talking can help her voice anxiety she has to deepening relaxation and the play state. Intimacy and marriage counseling can help a female turn inwards. In time, counseling can help her tune out stress and build mindfulness. A woman needs to know how to pay attention to her inner pleasure. She needs to be connected in her body and mind, in order to ride the waves of orgasmic pleasure.
There are different types of orgasm in the female body
To note, having multiple orgasms is a topic in intimacy therapy and marriage counseling in Connecticut. You can talk about arousal and rest between orgasms. For some women, there is a short time between orgasms. And, your nervous system resets quickly.
Furthermore, you can think of sexual pleasure and arousal as a form of conditioning.
Overall, you can practice and get to know your body better from counseling. Some women maintain a high level or arousal sexually after one orgasm occurs. Then, they can have a second or third orgasm more easily. On the other hand, after an orgasm, some women drop down to a low state of sexual arousal. For them, more touch is required to get place to a place of orgasming again.
Differences in multiple orgasms in sex positive couples counseling in Southeastern Connecticut
Changing sexual positions can make a difference in orgasm experience. The more frequently a female takes part in sexual experiences, the more used to pleasure and arousal the female body will be. For instance, there may be a multitude of ways to create simulation sexually. Additionally, oral sex can be a topic in marriage counseling in Southeastern Connecticut.
The use of vibrators for clitoral stimulation can be another topic in marital intimacy counseling.
How and when to use vibrators makes a huge difference. As well, sex toys, nipple stimulation, and sexual intercourse can all prepare the body for orgasm. And, each of these can provide a different type of orgasm. In a whole sexual experience, you may utilize different types of stimulation to create a different orgasm experience. A partner can support a female in expressing herself, while she is receiving pleasure. Lastly, a female typically needs to orgasm before intercourse.
To begin, click the button below to book your phone consult to learn about multiple orgasms in inimtacy therapy and marriage counseling.
How to support multiple orgasms in intimacy therapy and marriage counseling?
It can feel pleasurable to explore your body and with your partner. For many, the female body is a mystery. And, there is just not enough education around sex, pleasure, and clitoral stimulation in our culture.
Shame, fear, and anxiety are blockers to orgasming.
When a different emotions arise, your marriage and intimacy therapist can help you work through those. Commonly, couples do not spend enough time talking about their sexual needs and desires. Fear, shame, guilt, insecurity, and passion can all come up in sexual experiences. Sexual frustrations, rejection, and sadness may create a need more therapy. As well, past experiences of trauma and sexual abuse may come up in sexual experiences.
The team of marriage therapists Wisdom Within Counseling teach about the female orgasm, intimacy, sex toys, and pleasurable sexual releases
At Wisdom Within Counseling, we support females and couples in creating a foundation for sexual play and pleasure. Understanding your partner’s sexual needs can bring new desires, attraction, and fulfillment. As well, working up to multiple orgasms in intimacy therapy and marriage counseling support female pleasure. Creating a healthy sex life paves the way for intimacy in sexual release and sexual expression. From female pleasure, multiple orgasms are possible. Our team at Wisdom Within Counseling in Southeastern Connecticut offers video and in person sessions. Overall, the marriage therapists at Wisdom Within Counseling would love to help you and your partner.
