First, if your relationship is struggling, it’s not where it should be, there’s conflict, and yelling, we can help. If you yell and have big fights, couples therapy supports healthy communication. Getting angry is a normal part of being human. However, it can leave unresolved emotions that you can talk about with your Melbourne, Florida marriage counselor. Intimacy and marriage therapy in Melbourne, Florida supports playfulness, meaningful connection, and a passionate sex life. When couples stop having happy, positive, fulfilling sex or sexual experiences, they will often start to feel like a sexless marriage is the new normal. When couples stop having sex, they may start to feel okay with that.
We are a team of marriage and family therapists in Melbourne, Florida that love helping couples.
Are there sexual dysfunctions or sexual difficulties challenging your relationship?
Maybe, you even struggle with sexual rejection or have a sexless relationship. At one time, you felt passion together and chemistry. It was exciting to be alone, but now sex feels like a chore. Sex feels boring and you just have the same routine. Intimacy and marriage therapy in Melbourne, Florida can spice up your sex life. Couples get a safe place to talk about sexual needs, BDSM, role play, lubricants, and incorporate sex toys. You can talk about how you feel about less sex or sexual rejection. Commonly, couples feel frustrated and sad that intimacy has decreased. Maybe, you have a high sex drive and your partner has a low sex drive, and there’s some conflicts. Differences in libido can lead to sexual frustrations happening. Along the Space Coast of Florida, the couples therapists at Wisdom Within Counseling meet on video.
To begin, click the button below to book your phone consult for more intimacy and sex through couples counseling.
Affair recovery is a good reason to seek intimacy and marriage therapy in Melbourne, Florida
Trust issues and a history of cheating are good reasons to seek couples therapy. Intimacy and marriage therapy in Melbourne, Florida helps couples heal after an affair or cheating. When there has been an affair, emotional or physical cheating, trust breaks. Therefore, marriage counseling can help you when you want to stay together. Wisdom Within Counseling can help you both figure out how to get through these challenges together. You can gain tools and emotional skills to repair trust and betrayal wounds.
Pornography addiction creates a need for intimacy and marriage therapy in Melbourne, Florida
If your partner has like a pornography addiction, and that can create some betrayal. At Wisdom Within Counseling, our team of therapists can work through trust issues with you both. You can learn to connect emotionally together and rebuild security in counseling.
Repair conflict along the Florida Space Coast couples counseling
Intimacy and marriage therapy in Melbourne, Florida helps couples repair conflict. You can learn how the betrayal through pornography began. Pornography addiction can lead to shame, guilt, secret keeping, and worries about unmet sexual needs. Space Coast couples counseling provides understanding, compassion, and clarity. It can be hurtful finding out your partner has a pornography addiction. Pornography addictions can be impulsive and compulsive by nature.
Pornography use can develop due to multiple reasons. Your couples therapist can help figure out what leads to porn use. In Melbourne, Florida, couples can have a safe place to talk about their relationship to porn. Couples can really start to create resolution after conflict. The team at Wisdom Within Counseling encourage you to talk about you sex life, sexual desires, sexual fantasies, and intimacy. In marriage counseling, you can both create a safe space to talk about rebuilding intimacy.
A lot of couples will come into counseling because talking about sex is difficult
To begin, click the button below to book your phone consult for a safe place to talk about your sex life and marriage.
Intimacy and marriage therapy in Melbourne, Florida is a safe place to share sexual anxieties and sexual fears
You might have a passionate, arousing, sexual fantasy you want to share with your partner. But, you are afraid fo facing rejection or embarrassment. For instance, when one person has a sexual fantasy, they often do not share it. Many times, sexual partners do not talk about sexual needs out of fear of embarrassment. Therefore, couples therapy in Melbourne, Florida is a safe place to begin talking about sex. For some couples, talking about sexual desire and sexual needs have charged emotions. So, your partner might feel rejection or have sexual anxiety. Perhaps, you or your partner have faced sexual criticism or disappointment. Maybe, you both want to talk about nervousness, insecurity. Other times, couples therapy can help improve emotional closeness as a whole. Holding all of these emotions in can lead to anger.
How does anger hurt a marriage?
How can Melbourne, Florida marriage therapy help couples release anger in healthy ways?
If you are afraid, sometimes you might get angry. And, both peopl ein a relationship may begin saying things they don’t mean. Often, these are intentionally hurtful statements out of hurt, insecurity, or fear. Therefore, couples therapy can help you talk about these emotions under anger. Essentially, anger is a secondary emotion. Loss, hurt, betrayal, fear, anxiety, and neglect are all important to talk about. Talking about these other emotions can help reduce and manage anger. Furthermore, talk about intimacy, your sexual needs, and your sexual desires builds a healthy marriage. In Melbourne, Florida, couples counseling can be a safe place to understand what builds desire.
Let’s talk about sex!
You and your partner may have different things that turn you on. Marriage counseling can be a confidential space to express your sexual fantasies. You can safely share what leads you to feel sexual pleasure. As well, you are encouraged by your marriage therapist to share what areas of your body you want touched. In couples counseling together, you can start to reduce anger and irritation by talking about unmet needs and emotions. You can learn to reduce and manage anger in healthy and effective ways. By sharing your emotions, your partner can hear your needs. Your couples therapist at Wisdom Within Counseling can help you both. Meaningful connection, healthy communication, and sex are all connected.
Couples therapy in Melbourne, Florida
If you are struggling to talk about sex, start slow. So, instead of talking about sexual penetration or sexual intercourse, talk about holding hands. Start with gentle touch to build trust. To add, you can ask you partner how they feel about giving or getting a back rub. After trust issues, start with a safe gesture. You back rub doesn’t have to end in sex or sexual intercourse. In couples therapy, we don’t want to be focused on that end goal being sexual penetration. Instead, we want to be in the moment. Just feeling the back rub. Intimacy and marriage therapy in Melbourne, Florida is about being in this present moment and creating emotional safety.
To begin, click the button below to book your phone consult for Melbourne, Florida intimacy and marriage.
Couples therapy at Wisdom Within Counseling helps couples become embodied and in tune.
Mindfulness of touch and understanding how to create a sexual mindset are parts of sex, intimacy and marriage therapy in Melbourne, Florida
Intimacy counseling in Melbourne, Florida helps partners develop inner awareness to feel the body being receiving pleasure. Part of couples counseling is being present. It is common for the mind to wander to the to-do list or worry about the future.
More so, sex, intimacy and marriage therapy in Melbourne, Florida supports a sexual mindset.
Just like you have to get your mind ready to goto work, you have to get your mind in a sex mood. Learning to get in a sexy mindset is part of marriage counseling. Commonly, couples struggle to have sex because they are having anxiety about sick parents or children. It can be difficult to think sexy thoughts when dealing with anxiety. Sex and marriage counseling is a safe place to learn sexual mindset skills. Being able to tune into yourself is an important technique to enjoy sexual pleasure.
LGBTQIA+, non-binary, transgender, same sex, kink positive, and queer affirming and friendly counseling
So, if you are in a same sex relationship, Wisdom Within Counseling is a great fit for you. The team of therapists are LGBTQIA+ affirming, kink friendly, non-binary affirming, and queer educated. We love working with same sex couples. If you are questioning your gender, or your sexuality, you are in a safe place. Same sex couples and queer couples face more cultural shame and guilt. Any sense of family rejection in the coming out process can be intensified by a critical spouse. On that note, same sex and queer couples need extra support building a healthy couple bubble. So, if you have not been having sex, or feel like sex is a chore, our team would love to help.
To begin, click the button below to book your phone consult for LGBTQIA+ kink friendly sex, intimacy and marriage therapy in Melbourne, Florida.
Our marriage therapists want to help you have positive, satisfying, pleasurable sexual experiences and frequently.
Intimacy, sex, and marriage therapy in Melbourne, Florida helps you spice up your romance and intimacy
You can have a confidential space to talk about the things you might not be able to talk about calmly. Sex issues should not be shared with anyone else outside of your relationship beside your therapist. You can talk about sexual dysfunction and sex issues in counseling. You might want to start using sex toys. From Melbourne, Florida couples therapy, you get to create new and different sexual experiences together.
When couples take part in new experiences together, their satisfaction and marital happiness scores are higher.
Therefore, when you do something new like incorporate a sex toy into your sexual experience, that can bring that new meaning. Using sex toys like vibrators can be an intentional part of a healthy sex life. And, Melbourne, Florida couples therapy can help you process different emotions that come up. Using a new sex toy can lead to sexual anxiety or intense sexual pleasure. Intimacy and marriage therapy can inspire you to incorporate different sex toys to maximize sexual pleasure.
Intimacy, sex and couples therapy in Melbourne, Florida helps you rediscover erogenous zones
As well, Melbourne, Florida intimacy counseling can help you learn about erogenous zones. You can play and create a sexual adventure. From couples counseling, you can understand what turns on your partner and what areas most effective for supporting sexual pleasure. Also, you can talk about what erogenous zones you feel most attracted to on your partner’s body. Here are some ideas to consider. What erogenous zones on your body do you like touched? How do you like touch in order to feel sexual pleasure? Do you like deep or light touch? Some couples also take part in BDSM. The team at Wisdom Within Counseling are BDSM and kink friendly therapists. BDSM is a whole spectrum that we can get into in sex and couples counseling.
Intimacy, sex and marriage therapy in Melbourne, Florida adds elements of surprise, mystery, adventure, suspense, and risk.
There can be different elements of role play with BDSM. As well, couples can get into different visualizations. Kink can include sensory deprivation, blindfolds, and sex toys. Couples therapy is a safe place to talk about kind of all different beautiful, sexual elements. You can talk about what is thrilling sexually. As well, couples can talk about what builds passion and excitement sexually. If you’re looking to improve your intimacy, start talking about the emotions, fears and anxiety that might be preventing a good sex life. The team at Wisdom Within Counseling give couples a safe place to talk about different emotions around a healthy sex life. A healthy sex life gets build through emotional closeness and emotional intimacy.
To begin, click the button below to book your phone consult for sex, intimacy and marriage therapy in Melbourne, Florida.
Do you struggle with communication?
Conflicts have been increasing in your relationship. As well, yelling and communicating is really challenging for the both of you. You’re finding that there’s the silent treatment. At times, you just don’t know what to say to make your partner happy. Marriage counseling can be a really great place to build healthy coping tools together. And, the team of therapists at Wisdom Within Counseling, would love to be able to help support improving your communication.
About the owner, Katie Ziskind, licensed marriage and family therapist
Katie Ziskind, owns and runs Wisdom Within Counseling in Melbourne, Florida and Niantic, Connecticut. As well, Katie Ziskind is a licensed marriage and family therapist in Connecticut and in Florida.
Katie Ziskind and her team of therapists would love to help you deepening the trust, communication, and sexual desire in your relationship.
The couples therapists at Wisdom Within Counseling help couples build a sense of security emotionally.
Additionally, Katie Ziskind is as a trauma sensitive yoga therapist and yoga teacher. Couples can experience yoga, meditation and mindfulness, and art therapies. Through holistic counseling, couples can connect in different ways. Couples may do creative painting or partner yoga poses. As well, Melbourne, Florida couples therapy helps build that playfulness back up again. For couples, holistic, creative, mind body therapies also help with trauma recovery. Katie Ziskind and her team help with trauma bond repair and trauma bond recovery. Let’s build the relationship of your dreams.
We love talking with couples about communication, intimacy, sex and their marriage as a whole.
We believe emotional closeness is a big element to feeling safe intimately and sexually. The team at Wisdom Within Counseling help couples build a meaningful marriage. Wisdom Within Counseling offers support to couples in Orlando, Port St. John, Titusville, Cocoa, Rockledge, Cape Canaveral, Merritt Island, Cocoa Beach, Satellite Beach, Indian Harbour Beach, Indialantic, Melbourne Beach, Palm Bay, and Viera. We support couples in Brevard County, Florida.
