Are you looking for a more vibrant sex life in your marriage?
Looking to express your sexuality in new, playful, and more exciting ways?
Needing help overcoming sexual insecurities, anxiety, or sexual fears?
What can all couples learn from deepening intimacy in with a couples therapist?
The Wisdom Within Counseling marriage therapists specialize in intimacy, sex and sexual pleasure.
Overall, a healthy sex life is so much more than vaginal penetration or intercourse. Many couples need help building in creativity, spice, and opening the conversation around sexual pleasure. Wisdom Within Counseling in Connecticut specializes in LGBTQIA+ affirming couples counseling. Our marriage therapists specialize in intimacy, sex and sexual pleasure in couples counseling.
Unfortunately, many couples who seek intimacy therapy, are stuck and do not know what else to do. Many couples are in a routine of vaginal penetration only.
Sex feels like a chore, boring, or your marriage is sexless all together.
At Wisdom Within Counseling, the marriage therapists specialize in intimacy, sex, pornography addiction, sexual pain, and sexual pleasure in couples counseling.
Sex is unsatisfying, boring, and mundane when couples reach out for intimacy therapy, sex help, and marriage therapy at Wisdom Within Counseling.
There are many ways to experience intimacy, sexual arousal, sexual expression, sex, and sexual pleasure. Sexual orientation and sexual expression are very different.
Unfortunately, our culture tries to put everyone’s sexual needs into one small box. This can cause low libido issues, especially when feeling shame about what you enjoy sexually. Society and culture tell us that there is one normal way to like and have sex. But, this is not true.
Each human has diverse and unique sexual needs.
Each person who comes to Wisdom Within Counseling gets a safe place to talk about their personal needs for building sexual desire and experiencing sexual pleasure.
And, working with a sex and intimacy therapist can help bring out your sexual confidence to know that what turns you on is acceptance and awesome. Our marriage therapists specialize in intimacy, sex, orgasming, and sexual pleasure in couples counseling.
Couples counseling can be a safe place to share what arouses you sexually and what gives you sexual pleasure with your romantic partner. Many times, people of all genders and ages can experience sexual issues and sexual dysfunction.
To begin, click below for a phone consult for marriage therapy and intimacy counseling in Connecticut for a satisfying sex life.
Is it true that we all want something different sexually?
Do you wish you felt comfortable talking about sex?
How does a person find out what they want and like to feel sexual pleasure and sexual desire?
Just like each person wants a different lunch and eats foods for lunch, each person wants something different sexually. One person may want a roast beef sandwich for lunch. Another person may want fresh sushi. And, another person may want something vegetarian or vegan. Each person is hungry and feeds themselves what they like. Identifying what you desire sexually is similar to the intuitive way you feed yourself when hungry.
Sexuality and sexual expression are different hungers for each person.
So, each person gain can learn, from sex and intimacy therapy, that their sexual desires are valid. First and foremost, accepting your sexual fantasies with confidence is key in having a rich sex life. So often, through strict, religious childhoods, culture, and society’s oppressing views, we cut ourself off from what truly pleasures us. As well, you may push away an idea or fantasy you find sexually pleasuring because you fear your partner would reject you.
There is not one normal when it comes to sexual expression or experiencing sexual pleasure.
Intimacy and sexual pleasure go hand in hand. In marriage counseling sessions, you can talk about your sexual fears, needs, and fantasies.
From opening the conversation around sex, you and your partner can feel more intimate and vulnerable together.
Each person can talk about what they want and need in terms of pleasure, pressure, touch, and sensation.
In general, each person in a relationship has different needs for sexual pleasure. Our marriage therapists specialize in intimacy, sex and sexual pleasure in couples counseling.
Our Wisdom Within Counseling marriage therapists specialize in sexless marriages, intimacy, sex, sexual pain, and sexual pleasure in couples counseling.
Also, couples counseling gives each person in a romantic relationship a voice to speak up about their sexual needs and sexual desires.
To begin, click below for a phone consult for marriage therapy and intimacy counseling in Connecticut for a satisfying sex life.
Working with a sex specialist can be a safe place to talk about BDSM, power dynamics, and sexual pleasure.
Yes, let’s talk about BDSM and sexual pleasure.
What is kinky sex? Would you like to add diversity to your sex life? Looking to explore BDSM?
BDSM can be something one person enjoys, but another does not. If you enjoy BDSM, speaking with your partner may bring for fears of rejection. There are so many variations within BDSM as well.
Vanilla sex is more traditional in terms of sexual pleasure. So, if your intimate partner is more vanilla in terms of what they like, couples therapy at Wisdom Within Counseling can support opening this conversation.
At Wisdom Within Counseling, couples who take on power play and BDSM dynamics have a safe place to talk about sexual pleasure.
Marriage therapy at Wisdom Within Counseling can help couples be safe exploring BDSM and understand consent.
Eroticism, BDSM, role play, pain, pleasure, and a healthy sex life can look different for each person and each couple. Even within the realm of BDSM and kinks are so many different types of sexual pleasures. Some people deeply enjoy having pain inflicted, and this brings them pleasure.
Other people deeply enjoy inflicting pain, knowing it is giving their romantic partner or play partner pleasure.
Some people like being tied up and partaking in role play. Other people enjoy nipple and breast play. BDSM also gets a lot of shame in out culture and society and is seen as taboo.
Couples who want to try out new sex toys and power dynamics sexually can feel safe discussing these topics at Wisdom Within Counseling.
Our holistic marriage therapists specialize in intimacy, sex, orgasming, sexual frustration, and sexual pleasure in couples counseling.
To begin, click below for a phone consult for marriage therapy and intimacy counseling in Connecticut for a satisfying sex life.
Polyamorous relationships, consensual open marriage and consensual non monogamy
Some couples may want to have an polyamorous relationship, consensual open marriage, or partake in consensual non monogamy. Often, when someone has a different erotic interest than us, we like to think of them as taboo.
The team at Wisdom Within Counseling in Connecticut help couples navigate opening their marriage consensually.
There are many different ways to have a relationship, with multiple people, or just one. Within a polyamorous relationship and consensual open marriage, there are hundreds of way each person expresses their sexuality.
The team of sex, intimacy, and marriage therapists at Wisdom Within Counseling help couples in polyamorous relationship and consensual open marriages express their fantasies and what gives them sexual pleasure.
There are so many options when couples come in for marriage counseling and intimacy therapy to talk about sexual pleasure.
As well, intimacy therapy and marriage counseling can help couples and individuals expand upon what sexual pleasure means to them.
For some people, pleasure could begin with sexy texts through out the day. Other people find wanting pornography to be sexually pleasurable. Maybe, creating an exciting sex life is about buying new sex toys or new outfits.
Another person may find being in a submissive role, and told what to do by a dominant partner sexually arousing.
Wisdom Within Counseling in Connecticut helps couples talk about all of these sexual topics with confidence.
Couples, sex, intimacy, and marriage counseling can help individuals and couples expand, express, and evolve narrow, fear-based ideas.
Is sex just vaginal penetration right now, and are you looking for a healthy, satisfying sex life?
After trying the same routine for years, it is normal for one or both partners to avoid sexual activities, have a low libido, or suffer from low sexual desire.
To begin, click below for a phone consult to work with a sex specialist in intimacy counseling in Connecticut for a satisfying sex life.
Our marriage therapists specialize in intimacy, erectile dysfunction, sex and sexual pleasure in couples counseling.
We help distant couples who feel stuck just partaking in vaginal intercourse, gain positive sex tools.
Different sexual skills help couples create a more vibrant, diverse and satisfying sex life. Sex is not just about vaginal penetration.
But, many couples get stuck with emotionless, vaginal intercourse and that is all it is. And, when your sexual activity is merely just vaginal intercourse, women often have an aversion to having sex.
With out proper foreplay or understanding female sexual pleasure, sexual intercourse is often painful. Foreplay, teasing, flirting, and edging warm up a female’s body and allow vaginal penetration to feel satisfying. If you feel stuck with the same, old sex routine of vaginal penetration, couples therapy with a sex and intimacy specialist in Connecticut can help.
Intimacy, marital, and sex counseling in Connecticut helps couples understand there are thousands of ways to experience sexual pleasure.
Couples can develop a variety of sexual tools from working with a sex specialist. These diverse sexual tools can build sexual excitement.
Couples can also overcome low libido and low sexual desire issues from meeting with a Wisdom Within Counseling intimacy and sex specialist.
Our marriage therapists specialize in intimacy, sex and sexual pleasure in couples counseling where you can talk talk about intimacy, sex, orgasming, and sexual pleasure!
One step to begin, is to think about what currently sexually arouses you, turns you on, and makes your body feel pleasure.
There are so many possibilities when it comes to sexual satisfaction and the process of experiencing and orgasm.
Think about the parts of your body you like being caressed, touched, and what you fantasize about.
The next step is sharing these feelings, desires, and needs with your sexual partner.
Why come in for marriage counseling and intimacy therapy in Connecticut?
You get to have a safe place to talk about sexual pleasure.
Our marriage therapists specialize in intimacy, sex, sexual problems, sexual rejection, and sexual pleasure in couples counseling.
To begin, click below for a phone consult to meet with our marriage therapists who specialize in intimacy, sex and sexual pleasure in couples counseling for a more satisfying sex life.
Talk about sexual fantasies with confidence in marriage therapy and intimacy counseling
Many couples avoid speaking and talking about sex as a whole. A person may notice that talking about sexual needs and sexual desires brings out anxiety in their spouse.
Sometimes, a person deeply loves their romantic partner, and doesn’t want to offend them. So, they just don’t ever talk about sexual pleasure.
Sometimes, couples come in for marriage counseling and intimacy counseling in Connecticut because they feel afraid to talk about sexual fantasies with their partner.
As a whole, women are taught by society and culture to grin and bear it when sex is painful, rather than having a voice and speaking up.
One person may fear rejection or fear their intimate partner will find them disgusting for having a certain sexual fantasy. At Wisdom Within Counseling in Connecticut, working with a sex and intimacy therapy helps you feel safe and confident sharing sexual needs.
Many couples are fearful, anxious, and apprehensive to share their sexual fantasies with one another.
For many couples, finally talking about sexual fantasies in counseling can provide a sense of understanding about sexual pleasure needs. You and your romantic partner can voice anxiety, overwhelm, joy, and excitement. Couples can experiment with playing out new fantasies once they get a chance to talk about them together.
As well, trying new sex toys, lubricants, and getting adventurous together are benefits of sex and intimacy counseling in Connecticut. Sexual pleasure can be very different for each person.
Marriage counseling and intimacy counseling supports confident conversations around sharing sexual fantasies.
Explore new sex toys can build in playfulness
You can do research online as well. But, that only goes so far. Working in marriage counselor, intimacy therapist, and working with a sex specialist helps couples explore new sex toys. Spicing up a boring, mundane, and routine sex life can be very valuable in building bonding and intimacy.
In what ways can intimacy counseling help couples build sexual confidence?
As well, marriage counseling and intimacy therapy can help couples feel confident going to a sex shop. Couples who are stuck in a boring sexual routine of vaginal penetration only or painful vaginal sex, may need encouragement around buying lubricant.
As well, intimacy counseling helps couples overcome awkward or anxious feelings. Couples can begin to feel confident getting new, sexy outfits, and taking on new roles for a playful BDSM scene.
Understand pornography can set an unrealistic expectation around sexual activities and what is “normal”
Pornography is not a proper place to gain sexual healthy information or education. Rather, pornography is erotic material that can help you feel turned on and asexually aroused. You can learn from pornography what you want to try with your partner sexually.
But, trying it with your partner can bring up a verity of emotions from shame and guilt, to frustration, to euphoria.
Sadly, pornography is where many people get their sex education.
A person’s mirror neurons can light up and a person can become sexually aroused from watching others experience sexual pleasure in pornography. But, pornography is acting.
So, porn is not proper sexual education. Working with the sex specialists and intimacy counselors at Wisdom Within Counseling in Connecticut helps couples identify sexual pleasure. Couples can also process the emotions that go along with trying new sexual experiences.
The Wisdom Within Counseling marriage therapists specialize in intimacy, sex, sex toys, sexual diversity, and sexual pleasure in couples counseling.
To begin, click below for a phone consult for marriage therapy and intimacy counseling in Connecticut for a satisfying sex life.
Gain sexual education from marriage counseling and intimacy counseling
Therefore, marriage counseling, and intimacy counseling can help individuals and couples improve sexual skills and understand anatomy. There can be a sense of confidence that comes from speaking to your sexual, romantic partner about sex.
Learning what one another enjoys sexually and what each person’s desires are are key in a healthy sex life.
Often, couples therapy will give you a safe palce to gain respect for your partner’s sexual fantasies.
As well, working with a sex specialist in intimacy counseling helps couples fully understand consent, especially when one or both people identify as a survivor of sexual trauma or sexual abuse.
Our marriage therapists specialize in intimacy, sex and sexual pleasure in couples counseling. Marriage therapy with a sex specialist can help individual voice what areas of sexual play are off limits. Their partner can understand what areas are off limits and couples can set clear boundaries as well.
Our marriage therapists specialize in intimacy, sex, orgasming, and sexual pleasure in couples counseling.
Oral sex confidence
Some couples shy away from certain sexual activities. For instance, one person may not want to receive oral sex. If one person carries body shame or fears they smell bad due to society’s body shame and marketing scams, they may feel insecure about receiving oral sex.
Or, one person may not feel comfortable giving oral sex. For years, oral sex may be something couples avoid. In fact, with proper education, oral sex can be pleasurable to give and receive.
A person who does not want to give oral sex may need professional marriage counseling to gain confidence to do so.
Also, couples therapy and intimacy therapy helps partners gain confidence around female anatomy.
Intimacy and marriage counseling in Connecticut can help a female’s partner know how to find a female’s clitoris to properly give pleasurable oral sex.
Sometimes, a female’s romantic partner has never felt confident giving oral sex. Overall, intimacy counseling helps a female’s partner identify and pleasure her clitoris with confidence.
There can be many reasons as to why a person feels apprehensive or shy providing oral sex.
The marriage therapists specialize in intimacy, sexual problems, sexual rejection, sex and sexual pleasure in couples counseling.
Learning about female anatomy
Finding the female’s clitoris is a great part of sexual education from intimacy counseling and marriage therapy in Connecticut.
When a female’s partner knows how to find her clitoris, this can make sexual activities more satisfying. From knowing how to properly stimulate a female’s clitoris, a female can experience immense sexual pleasure. As a result, a female’s sexual partner can feel confident giving oral sex. This can deepen the intimacy on an emotional level int eh marriage too.
Sexual pleasure and clitoral stimulation
Often, a female’s partner may be too rough, over stimulate her clitoris, or over focus attention on this area.
Knowing how to work between the erogenous zones can be a sexual skill marriage therapy and intimacy counseling can teach.
A person may not understand how to find a female’s clitoris if they are a different gender.
Also, a female’s intimate partner may not know what clitoral stimulation feels like or if they are being too rough, if they do not have a clitoris themselves.
By working with a sex, marriage, and intimacy therapist at Wisdom Within Counseling, couples can openly talk about where the clitoris is.
Unfortunately, many males have no idea how to find a female’s clitoris or even what a clitoris is. A female’s clitoris is a body part above her vulva and is totally there for sexual pleasure. We can not talk about sexual pleasure in females with out speaking directly about the clitoris.
Sexual confidence from talking about intimacy in couples therapy and sexual pleasure
A female can much more easily orgasm from clitoral stimulation than she can from vaginal intercourse or vaginal sex. So, learning where a female’s clitoris is will be a big part in creating a satisfying sex life.
As well, a female’s partner can feel confident finding a female’s clitoris and supporting clitoral orgasms from marriage therapy and intimacy counseling.
In Connecticut, marriage therapy and intimacy counseling helps a female’s partner feel assure they know how to give oral sex and stimulate her clitoris.
Our marriage therapists specialize in intimacy, sex, sexual anxiety, building a satisfying sex life, and sexual pleasure in couples counseling.
