Are you living with aggression, silent treatments, hurt, anger, and doubt after finding out about infidelity?
Or, are you feeling overwhelmed and overcome with guilt, frustration, shame, worry, and fear?
Stuck in a negative cycle of anxiety, fighting, abandonment, and kicking each other out, but wanting it to be nurturing and healthier?
Finding out your spouse is cheating can be a real shock. All at once, your worst fears come true and you question everything. You’re in the right place with Wisdom Within Counseling. Not all therapists work with couples. And, many couples therapists generally do not specialize in infidelity counseling.
At Wisdom Within Counseling, the marriage therapists specialize in the complex issues that infidelity pose on a family and marriage.
Infidelity can make you doubt yourself and your marriage. For one, you might consider a separation or divorce. Other times, on the good days, you want to be together and feel safe again. At Wisdom Within Counseling in Connecticut, our therapists help angry, distant, hurt, and anxious couples who have high conflict fights. But, couples who are both wanting to be together and want to build a loving, healthy relationship.
What does infidelity counseling help you do?
First, in the early stages of infidelity counseling, you’ll likely feel emotionally supported. Often, infidelity counseling helps couples who want to stay together, but need emotional tools to get calmer and closer. Therefore, infidelity counseling in marriage therapy helps you address a lot of questions about the affair itself. Often, anger, yelling, and violence can scare children. Maybe, department of children and families is in your life now. At times, children who see their parents fight end up becoming aggressive towards their peers. We offer child therapy using art, yoga, music, and outdoor play therapy too! So, marriage and family therapy can help your whole family function better and remain healthy.
Our therapists can teach you and your children how to let go of anger and anxiety and healthy, peaceful ways.
So, expect video or Connecticut marriage counseling to be a safe place to share intense emotions and gain clarity. At Wisdom Within Counseling in Connecticut, our marriage counselors help angry couples who walk on eggshells who have high conflict fights, talk calmly. We help couples who are aggressive and have PTSD, but want help rebuilding playful connection and a meaningful bond.
What might you talk about in Connecticut marriage counseling with an infidelity and betrayal speciality?
Sometimes, a spouse may want to know things like, “What made you choose that person?” and, “When did the affair start?” What but, not all marriage therapist work with couples who have been through infidelity. Marriage counseling issues can range from chores, to the children, to work. Commonly, marriage counseling helps couples who need help carving out time for dates. However, infidelity counseling after betrayal involves trauma therapy specialties too. Right now, therapy teaches you how to stop triggering each other’s anger and hurt. We help you as a whole focus on childhood trauma as well as marital trauma in a holistic way. PTSD therapy within couples therapy can make a huge impact. Also, our infidelity specialists take very specialized trainings to understand the cycle of cheating and attachment.
To add, your marriage therapy can help you rebuild trust and reassure you both when you wonder, “Do you still love me?”
Also, cheating can be generally a long term event. Or, cheating can be a single night. However, cheating is any negative behavior that only leads to hurt. So, it is helpful for you and your spouse to talk with a therapist. Your therapist can help you develop forgiveness and think about a more positive relationship. So, in marriage therapy for affair recovery you can talk about feelings of inadequacy, insecurity, sadness, hopelessness, and loss. Generally, your infidelity therapist will help you figure out your marriage and family goals to move forward.
Begin with a free phone call to us at 860-451-9364
Over video or in person, marriage and couples therapy can help you rebuild playfulness, rekindle desire, and develop security once again. Also, Marriage Counseling is a safe place to discuss sexuality, gender, sexual orientation. Sometimes, being bisexual, gay, homosexual, or in the closet can be a part of infidelity and marital cheating. You can calmly talk about relationship topics like affairs related to sexuality in counseling. Call or text 860–451-9364 to begin with a free 30 minute phone consultation for a healthier, happier marriage after infidelity, trauma, and hurt.
How can infidelity counseling help you grow closer? Why is it worth it? It is!
Now, the more emotionally open and honest that you can be, the better. Overall, your infidelity therapist helps you bridge difficult topics. So, during this part of the affair recovery therapy process, you learn new, positive ways of connecting. Furthermore, regular marriage therapy improves your chances for recovering your relationship and staying together.
So, from trust, therapy, and meaningful moments, you can grow a new marriage.
Infidelity counseling in marriage therapy can help you deal with the uncomfortable feelings like fear, worry, betrayal, and jealousy. Also, your marriage therapy can help you find healthy outlets for angry, hurt emotions that arise for each of you during the marriage counseling session. Generally, couples therapy is a safe space for talking about the past or current infidelity than getting out of hand and yelling at home.
Infidelity therapy speciality at Wisdom Within Counseling
What constitutes an affair?
To continue, you may view infidelity as sex outside the relationship. Others my view cheating and an affair as texting, confiding in, or calling someone else in an emotional way. Now, emotional affairs or sexual, anything painful or hurtful is cheating.
Also, emotional affairs can also harm and take focus away from a meaningful romantic relationship.
Our team of marriage therapist can help you rebuild trust for the longevity of your family unit. In marriage counseling, you can build healthy communication skills to help your next generation and your children thrive even better too.
Call or text 860–451-9364 to begin with a free 30 minute phone consultation for a healthier, happier marriage after infidelity, trauma, and hurt.
Affair recovery counseling in marriage therapy
Often, affairs can be along the line of sex addiction. Affairs may start out of stress, loss, need for distraction, hurt, abandonment, childhood trauma, or other causes. So, chronic affairs do more harm than a single emotional or single physical affair. We help traumatized couples who have high conflict fights, but are both now once again invested in the relationship. Call if you have recently found out your partner is cheating. So, call 860-451-9364 for a 30 minute free phone consult. Our group of holistic marriage and family therapists offer distance video sessions to any location as well as face-to-face counseling in Connecticut.
Infidelity counseling speciality in East Lyme, Connecticut
