Maybe, you can’t imagine the rest of your life remaining in the marriage.
Has one of you been cheating and feeling betrayal, anger, or loss?
Marriage counseling can help if you feel like your spouse has given up on the marriage.
Does it feel like you are walking on eggshells emotionally all the time?
One sign, that your marriage is over is that you fantasize and dream about being with someone else. Many times, people fantasize because they feel something is missing or lacking in their relationship. If you feel like emotional closeness or sex is lacking in your marriage, a therapist can help. Working in holistic marriage counseling in Waterford, Connecticut can help you build trust, connection, and positive communication skills. Sometimes, people with sexual addictions end up fantasizing about being with a lot of other people. But, this is not what we were talking about. At times, when a marriage is very challenging, one person may fantasize sexually, which is negative for the marriage. As well, if you are close to separation and divorce, you might fantasize about being free from your partner. These are signs that marriage counseling could help you rebuild your marriage, and may provide clarity about divorce.
Has an emotional or physical affair come between you and your spouse?
Another sign that your marriage is ending is that your partner had an affair or you had an affair. And, neither of you care anymore. So, if don’t care about your marriage anymore after having an affair, divorce may be coming. At times, married people have affairs both emotional or physical, but this doesn’t mean your marriage has to end. Yes, an affair is a sign to seek therapy to understand what caused it and to prevent it.
Affair and betrayal healing in holistic marriage counseling in Waterford, Connecticut
For some couples, an affair can bring them closer than they have were before. However, for some couples, an emotional or physical affair is a deep betrayal. And, an affair can be a symbol of loss of love. So, if your spouse doesn’t care that hey had an affair or how it impacted you, you may be getting divorced. On that note, an affair doesn’t have to end your marriage. But, if neither of you want to improve your behaviors, or process it, your marriage won’t work out much longer.
As well, if you find reasons to avoid your partner or feel resentful of them, you might be making a recipe for a divorce.
As well, does your partner stop listening to your feelings? Do you feel unloved or unwanted emotionally? Sometimes, people will avoid each other. This is an anxious and avoidant attachment style pattern. And, resentment can build from years of feeling like something is missing and can be traumatizing in a marriage. So, with an anxious avoidant attachment style, couples end up in fights.
To begin, book a phone consult for holistic marriage counseling in Waterford, Connecticut below.
Overall, in holistic marriage counseling in Waterford, Connecticut, it’s healthy to share to intense, challenging feelings.
For many couples, marital therapy is a place to learn have to communicate in positive ways. As well, in couples therapy, you can identify patterns that are keeping you stuck. Additionally, in relationship therapy, you can have a safe place to share and talk in out. Lastly, if you feel resentment, depressed, or you have isolated yourself from friends or family as a result of marriage woes, we can help you thrive.
In counseling, you can learn to build playfulness again.
As well, you can set healthy boundaries with your spouse for behaviors that might not feel so good to you. Often times, people in stuck, negative, and unhealthy marriages don’t know that they can have a more passionate, love life. Many times, when a marriage and then he’s headed for divorce, all people are in denial. You may not feel very good and it doesn’t feel equal anymore. Really, there is a cycle of high conflict fights that leave you in frustration and chaos. But, you feel like you don’t know how to step away and gain healthy communication skills on your own. Just because you feel depressed and upset with your partner doesn’t mean you can’t continue to learn and grow together.
Are you and your spouse seeking trauma informed marriage therapy to work on past hurt and high conflict fights?
As well, it can be hard if you have experienced trauma and disrespect from your spouse. Childhood traumas play a role in marriage life. For many, childhood trauma is what gets re-triggered in marital fights. At Wisdom Within Counseling in Waterford, Connecticut, we specialize in trauma informed counseling for couples. Maybe, your spouse has said some really hurtful things in the past that is preventing you from growing together. Or, the blame game gets everyone feeling negative about love.
Do you have a great friendship and strong foundation, and want to stay together, but need help?
But, at the end of the night, you genuinely feel happy together and want to learn how to work through these conflicts. Marriage counseling in Niantic, Connecticut can help you build a healthy couple bubble rituals. As well, Waterford Connecticut marriage counseling can help you build genuine respect and love for each other. And, these emotional skills for married couples create a foundation for closer, deeper growth.
At Wisdom Within Counseling, our marriage counselors specialize in helping distant couples build emotional communication, trust, and emotional intimacy.
If you see your spouse as a business partner or as a roommate, this means that something is missing from your marriage and your marriage is headed for divorce. Overall, a marriage that is lacking emotional intimacy and emotional expression will end. As humans, we need to feel emotionally close.
Therefore, holistic marriage counseling and help you rebuild your marriage and visualize a positive future.
In addition, going to marriage counseling can help If you don’t have sex anymore. When you first got together, you might’ve had sex multiple times a day or multiple times a week. Overtime, and every long-term relationship, the physical sex decreases. And, sometimes feeling unwanted or unloved can happen as a result too. But, by going through marriage counseling, you can gain emotional closeness, great sex, and trust again. As well, we have kink friendly and non-monogamous affirming therapists. So, if you are looking into safe BDSM play.
Our therapists can help you if you are looking to explore kink, BDSM, or open your marriage and healthy and safe way.
Overall, resentment can push people apart no matter how many people are you are in relationship to. When we work with polyamorous and non monogamous couples, we teach healthy communication skills. As well, we help couples learn how to have a healthy sex life. If you struggle and feel like there’s loneliness or resentment in your marriage, our couples therapists in Waterford, Connecticut can help you improve the health of your marriage. As well, holistic marriage counseling can bring playfulness, joy, and improve your desire.
We help distant couples heal and build trust after betrayal. Remember, secrecy and sneaking around only creates dysfunction and lies.
Secrets are cracks preventing a sustainable and loving foundation of your marriage.
In holistic marriage counseling in Waterford, Connecticut, you can learn to talk confidently rather than avoiding emotional conversations. In addition, you can realize that creating shared meeting and shared emotional goals. And, emotional goals allow you to both feel important to each other again.
In marriage counseling in Niantic, Connecticut, you can understand what causes high conflict conflicts.
As well, you can identify new emotions and understand how not to hurt your partner. And, couples therapy can help you see where the distance has come from in your marriage. As well as physical intimacy, couples therapy can help you build positive coping skills for self care. Additionally, holistic marriage counseling in Waterford, Connecticut can help you to communicate your love and sexual needs. If you don’t goto couples therapy soon enough, the hurtful things that may be irreversible. Unfortunately, many couples seek therapy too late. Hopefully, these signs can help you identify if your marriage is going downhill.
